This is http://www.essayz.com/b0704122.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %OBJECTIVE CAUSES EFFECTS PRESENCES ABSENCES MISS 070412 %REFLEXIVE RELATIONSHIPS ALIENATION RECONCILIATIONS 070412 %HEALING SICKNESS INJURY ENMITY ANIMOSITY DISTRUST 070412 %ENEMIES TRAITORS LOYALISTS EXCLUSIVITY INCLUSIVITY 070412 %HOSPITALITY WELCOME APPRECIATION COOPERATION LOVER 070412 %TRUE TRULY TRUTH COHERENT AUTHENTIC WARS TERRORIST 070412 We need to understand how and when it is that ALIENATION-Flows-From-Our-Behaviors and that ALIENATION IS NOT Objectively-Determined by Particular Actions. ALIENATION flows from Reflexive-Behaviors which Demonstrate-LACKS in: Authenticity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Sympathy, Sharing, Giving, Appreciation, Consideration, Thoughtfulness, Vision, Hopes, Aspirations, Generosity, Honesty, Feeling, Awareness, Integrity, Coherence, Sensibility, etc. None of the above LACKS are primarily objective traits which are ABSENT. Even thought it is possible to make use of the above terms in regards to some objective situations, the terms are more commonly used in regards to reflexive relationships and situations; where ABSENCES often occasion ALIENATION. It is very rare that scientists describe the cause of a sequences of events in terms of OBJECTS THAT WERE ABSENT; or in terms of the absence of purely objective relationships between objects. In objective realms scientists describe interactions almost exclusively in terms of the objects present to each other. It is common for reflexive people to describe the cause of reflexive-break-downs in reflexive-relationships --- in terms of ABSENCES of: Authenticity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Sympathy, Sharing, Giving, Appreciation, Consideration, Thoughtfulness, Vision, Hopes, Aspirations, Generosity, Honesty, Feeling, Awareness, Integrity, Coherence, Sensibility, etc. --- rather than in terms of the PRESENCE of their OPPOSITES. Focusing upon their OPPOSITES often contribute to the reflexive-break-downs of reflexive-relationships. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================