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 %INTENTIONAL SYMPATHY EMPATHY WITH CONTRAST OTHERS 070412
%FRAMES MIND PERSPECTIVES VALUES IDEALS IDEAS EVILS 070412
%EVIL RELATIONSHIPS DYSFUNCTIONAL CONTENTIONS GOODS 070412
%POSSESSIONS CONTROLS DOMINATION COOPERATION FAILED 070412
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    0.  The Following-Descriptions are Non-Sense When-you-
are-in-the-frame-of-mind-of PEOPLE-OTHER-THAN  the-people-
whose-whose-perspective is-being-described.  Intentionally
put yourself into the-frame-of-mind of the people  who are
being described as-you-read-each-item.    Sympathize-with-
them!   Empathize-with-their-perspective!    Try-to-under-
stand their point of view!

    1.  Odd-Numbered   items   describe  what  is   "odd",
"taboo", "resisted",  "non-sense",  "avoided", "rejected",
etc. by SUPERIOR-DOMINEERING-PEOPLE ---  REALLY; in THEIR-
VIEW of how things REALLY-ARE!       Read-Those-Items only
when  you are In-Their-Frame-of-Mind!    They will be NON-
SENSE when you are in the opposite Frame-of-Mind.    Avoid
the  opposite Frame-of-Mind when you read each item!   Put
yourself   in  the  Frame-of-Mind  of  the  people   being
described as you read each item;  intentionally sympathize
with  them!   Read ALL Odd-Numbered items sequentially  in
the point of view of the people being described.   Try it,
even if you do not like it.

    2.  Even-Numbered   items  describe  what   is   even,
honored,  desired,  shared,  given,  celebrated,  etc.  by
HUMBLE-TRUE-LOVERS --- REALLY; in THEIR-VIEW of how things
REALLY-ARE!!        Read-Those-Items only when you are In-
Their-Frame-of-Mind!  They will be NON-SENSE when you  are
in the opposite Frame-of-Mind.   Avoid the opposite Frame-
of-Mind  when you read each item!  Put  yourself   in  the
Frame-of-Mind  of the  people being described as you  read
each  item;  intentionally sympathize with them!  Read ALL
Even-Numbered items sequentially in the point of  view  of
the  people being described.   Try it,  even if you do not
like it.

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    3.  Beware of Even-Numbered Virtues that are Authentic

    4.  Beware of Odd-Numbered Vices    Masked-as-Virtues!

    5.  Letting-Go of Hopes-For     Final-Invulnerability.

    6.  Sharing-Hopes for   Authentic-Equality-&-Balance.

    7.  Striving-Eternally  For-Total-Control-&-Dominance.

    8.  Modeling-Eternally  Mutual-Cooperative-Generosity.

    9.  Modeling-Eternally  Unilateral-Superior-Controls.

   10.  Exposing/Unmasking  Alienative-Pretense-Hubris.

   11.  Perceiving-Relationships as they Really-Are.

   12.  Perceiving-Balanced-Relationships with Reverence.

   13.  Showing-Reverence for Superior-Patterns-of-Control

   14.  Showing-Reverence for Humble-Patterns-of-Honesty.

   15.  Clinging-to   Alienative-Technologies-of-Control.

   16.  Letting-Go-of Alienative-Technologies-of-Control.

   17.  Reverencing   Alienative-Technologies-of-Control.

   18.  Reverencing   Authenticity, Honesty, Integrity.

   19.  Redemptive-Violence is Our-Key to Our-Salvation.

   20.  Redemptive-Violence is The-Key to Entering-Hell.

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           HERE A MAJOR SHIFT IN WRITING IS MADE.

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    Below odd-numbered items are written from the point of
    view of Domineering-People, telling about True-Lovers.

    Below  even-numbered items are written from the  point
    of view of True-Lovers, as regards Domineering-People.

     1.  No chance of being successful   By-Good-Planning.

     2.  No chance of being Well-Integrated Enjoying-LOVE.

     3.  Unwilling to make sacrifices to    Be-In-Control.

     4.  Unwilling to make sacrifices to   Be-Cooperative.

     5.  Do not make any   Coherent-Plan-for-Real-Success.

     6.  Cannot enjoy     Being-Together in Shalom's-Ways.

     7.  Cannot  recognize  and     Deal-With Evil-People.

     8.  Cannot Truly-Resolve  Real-Ideological-Conflicts.

     9.  Cannot Really-Eliminate      Evil-from-the-World.

    10.  Cannot Really-Be-Peacemakers    In Shalom's-Ways.

    11.  Are weakened by:   Uncertainty-And-Doubts.

    12.  Are weakened by:  Arrogance, Pretense and Hubris.

    13.  Are unwilling to form:    One-Dominant-Coalition.

    14.  Are willing to form:      Alienative-Coalitions.

    15.  Are unwilling to Take-A-Clear-Stand  and Keep-It.

    16.  Are unwilling to     Affirm-Complementary-Ideals.

    17.  Are unwilling to    Reverence One-Ultimate-Ideal.

    18.  Are unwilling to  Integrate-Complementary-Ideals.

    19.  Incoherently-Affirm      Contradictory-Ideals.

    20.  Alienatively affirm Myths-of-Redemptive-Violence.

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     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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