This is http://www.essayz.com/b0703212.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %RISK HONESTY OWN INTIMATE REFLEXIVE RELATIONSHIPS 070321 %HUMANE SEXUALITY INTEGRATIVE AUTHENTIC INTEGRATION 070321 %ABSTRACTIONS GENERALIZATIONS SCHOLARSHIP OBJECTIVE 070321 %SCIENTIFIC MEASUREMENTS CAUSE EFFECT PREDICTIONS 070321 %MEANS MANIPULATION EXPECTATIONS FORMALITIES DEMAND 070321 %CONTROL ALIENATE REFLEXIVE EXISTENTIAL EXPERIENCE 070321 We cannot be Truly-Honest with others about our own most intimate/reflexive relationships --- without thereby taking some risks within additional relationships. What risks will exist in additional relationship will depend upon the natures of the people who are involved in those additional relationships 1. If the people within them are Domineering-People we will experience the risks of being dominated within new alienative-reflexive-relationships. 2. If the people within them are True-Lovers we will experience the risks of being involved in additional intimate/reflexive relationships. The additional relationships will be reflexive relationships; somewhere in the spectrum range from alienative-domineering to reconciling-reflexive relations. It is risky to be Truly-Honest with Domineering-People who are looking for ways to make other people more vulnerable --- more easy to dominate. It is risky to be Truly-Honest with True-Lovers who are looking for was to become intimately involved in Open- and-Honest-Dialogue --- which threatens Domineering-People who are Loyal-Supporters of The Domination-Systems of the Unrepentant-Fallen-Powers-That-Be --- Playing-Collusive- Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception; which MUST-NOT-BE EXPOSED. The above Facts-of-Reflexive-Living --- make it difficult for True-Scholars to Gather-and-Understand Reliable-Existential-Evidence about the Reflexive-Living OF: 1. Domineering-People for whom it is always taboo to make themselves vulnerable by being open and honest about their Reflexive-Relationships. 2. True-Lovers who run the risk of violating the taboos of Domineering-People who are threatened by all Open-And-Honest-Dialogue which might expose --- the lack of coherence/integrity within the Relationships of Domineering-People. Of course the outcome of Scholars-Work will depend upon to what extent they are Domineering-People and/or True-Lovers in their own Existential-Reflexive- Relationships --- and how Open-and-Honest the Scholars- May-Safely-Be-Together in Their-Scholarly-Work. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================