This is http://www.essayz.com/b0612051.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRUE LOVERS YEARN FREEDOM MORE OPEN HONEST FRIENDS 061205 %PRIVATE ROMEO JULIET TRAGIC FAMILY PRESSURES GREAT 061205 %CINDERELLA CONFLICTING INTERESTS IDEALS VALUES GOD 061205 %READY ACCEPT ACCURATE KNOWLEDGE WONDERFUL NATURE 061205 %MORALITY ETHICS TRADITIONS COMMANDMENTS DEMANDS IT 061205 %PRETENSE PRETEND FALSE COLLUSIONS SECRET KNOWLEDGE 061205 True-Lovers often Yearn-for-the-Freedom to be More- Open-and-Honest with those around them --- about the Wonderful-Nature of their Intimate-Relationships. Tragically often True-Lovers fear that those around them are not Ready-to-Accept accurate Knowledge about the Wonderful-Nature of their Intimate-Relationships which are indications of both Personal-and-Communal Integrations- and-Integrities. Tragically many people are most interested in knowing Who-is-Good, and Who-is-Evil --- within the Darkness-of- Traditional Alienative Assumptions, Attitudes and Beliefs. The following ten realities contribute to the Above- Suggested Tragic-Inhibitions in ways that few people Truly-Understand; because the Existential-Information which might become the Reliable-Basis for such a True- Understanding --- cannot be Safely-Communicated: 1. Morality based upon Taboos-and-Prohibitions. 2. Ethics based upon Simplistic-Prescriptions. 3. Contests over who can appear Most-Acceptable. 4. Relationships founded upon Formal-Procedures. 5. Integrity understood in terms of Conformity. 6. Security defined in terms of Invulnerability. 7. Weak committments to Personal-Integrations. 8. Weak committments to Communal-Integrations. 9. Guidance based upon Rewards-&-Punishments. 10. Rewards for Concentrations of Power/Wealth. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================