This is http://www.essayz.com/b0610111.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MUTUALLY COMPLEMENTARY RELIABLE HUMAN EXPERIENCE 061011 %TRULY AUTHENTIC TRUE LOVERS RELATIONSHIPS HONESTY 061011 %PRESENCE UNQUALIFIED LOVE ENABLED LETTING GO FEARS 061011 %ANXIETY ANXIETIES TERROR TERRORISM ATTACKS THREATS 061011 %CONTROLS VIOLENCE DOMINATION ALIENATION DEFENSES 061011 %DISINTEGRATIONS DESTRUCTION RATIONALIZE FORMALIZE 061011 Humane experiences confirm the truth that it is only to the extent that we are in the presence of UNQUALIFIED- LOVE that we are UNQUALIFIEDLY-ENABLED to UNQUALIFIEDLY- LET-GO of every one of the following: 1. Fears, 2. Anxieties, 3. Terror, 4. Terrorism, 5. Attacks and threats thereof, 6. Controls and threats thereof, 7. Violence and threats thereof, 8. Domination and threats thereof, 9. Alienations and threats thereof, 10. Disintegrations and threats thereof. 11. Defenses and the need for defenses. 12. Rationalizations and the need for rationalizations. 13. Formalizations and the need for formalizations. 14. Standardizations and the need for standardizations. 15. Conformity and the need for conformity. 16. Punishments and the need for punishments. 17. Superiority and the need for superiority. 18. Lords and the need for Lords. 19. Empires and the need for Empires. 20. Emperors and the need for Emperors. Humane experiences confirm the truth that it does no NET-GOOD to preface any of the above with the words "Myths-of Redemptive." The above is all "descriptive"; NOT "prescriptive" or "proscriptive" or "hints-of-taboos". The above pertains to all levels of human-relations: 1. Personal, 2. Friendships, 3. Covenants, 4. Bondings, 5. Intimacies, 6. Sexuality, 7. Cooperation, 8. Collaborations, 9. Dialogues, 10. Intercourse. The above pertains to all kinds and sizes of groups. Ignorance-of-the above, and ignoring-the-above, Lead- Reliably to Many-Forms of Personal---and---Communal DISINTEGRATION In-all-Sizes-of-Groups; --- Regardless-of- The-Presence-or-Absence of: Good-Intentions, Certainty, Collusive-Agreements, Wealth-Concentrations, Power- Concentrations, Coalitions, Contracts, Treaties, Legislation, Human-Laws, Theological-Agreements, Religion, etc. The Complementary-Truths-to-which-the-above-Point cannot be changed by any collection of humans and/or human efforts. There are many other ways to point to The-Mutually- Truths-to-which-the-above-Point, but still The-Mutually- Truths-to-which-the-above-Point remain Reliable-and-Worthy Of-Reverence, while the ways of pointing to them change. In the Light-of-the-Truths To-Which the Above-Point; it becomes clear that To-the-Extent that Communities-Honor Leaders-who-Concentrate Power-and-Wealth At-the-Expense of More-Vulnerable-People >---> To-that-Extent Others--in--their--Community will be unable to Be-in-the-Presence of the fully UNQUALIFIED-LOVE that UNQUALIFIEDLY-ENABLES ALL to UNQUALIFIEDLY-LET-GO of Every-One of the Alienative-Factors in the list of Twenty- Factors listed above. The consequences are Truly-Tragic. To-the-Extent that there is an Absence-of-Fully UNQUALIFIED-LOVE --- our Inhumane-Domination-Systems and our Inhumane-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception --- There-In RULE-US Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================