This is http://www.essayz.com/b0610101.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INFORMED WISE PRUDENT INCREMENTAL CHANGE RISK LOVE 061010 %BALANCE TERROR MODERATION CONTROL LETTING GO DEVIL 061010 %EVIL RELATIONSHIPS NEGATIVISM CONTENTIOUSNESS GOOD 061010 %POSESSIONS WEALTH POWER DOMINATION CERTAINTY BEST 061010 %SUPERIOR SELF EGO ID IMPRESSION IMPRESSIVE GOODS 061010 No-Matter What-we-Choose; We-take-Risks. No-Matter What-we-Do; We-take-Risks. What-Counts is What-Kinds-of-Risks we take. What-Counts is How-Extreme are the Risks-we-Choose. Below are suggested different Kinds-of-Risks we Take: Risking: Risking: Alienation Reconciliation Polarization Healing Dichotomization Integration Making-Demands Serving Invulnerability Vulnerability Pretentiousness Honesty Monologue Dialogue Attack Intimacy Hate Love Indifference Caring Stagnation Creativity Unilateral-Action Cooperation Arrogance Humility Self-Righteousness Right-Relationships Sense-of-Superiority Sense-of-Reverence Achievements Community Objections Collaboration Negativism Affirmations Giving-Commands Giving-Suggestions Being-Intolerant Being-Tolerant Being-Absent Being-Present Exclusion Inclusion Rejection Acceptance Extremism Moderation Terrorism Love Clinging-On Letting-Go Ownership Sharing Greed Generosity Coalitions Authenticity Certainty Humility Shouting Listening Domination Cooperation Controlling Collaborating Being-Absent Being-Present Excesses Moderation More-than-enough Less-than-enough Deficiency Enough Loss-of-Control Loss-of-Appreciation Loss-of-Respect Loss-of-Reverence Loss-of-Honor Loss-of-Reverence Loss-of-Order Loss-of-Coherence Loss-of-Conformity Loss-of-Balance Loss-of-Conformity Loss-of-Integrity Loss-of-Obedience Loss-of-Mutuality Loss-of-Ownership Loss-of-Community Loss-of-Order Loss-of-Unity Loss-of-Certainty Loss-of-Humility Loss-of-Self Loss-of-Others Loss-of-Dominance Loss-of-Reverence Our personal and communal integrities all depend upon what well-informed and prudent risks we wisely take, and upon what incremental modest changes we seek to make in our personal and communal lives. Our personal and communal integrities also depend upon what uninformed and imprudent risks we foolishly take, and upon what sudden im-modest change we seek to impose upon others through unilateral domineering actions. We need to Think-about-what-we-Risk-Losing each time we Try-to-avoid-Risking-Anything, and each time we try to Get-and-Keep All-that-We-May-Want. No words can capture and hold Apart-from-Us what is essential to both personal and communal integrities. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================