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 %ACKNOWLEDGE DESCRIBE MEET ACCEPTING RESPECT NEEDS 060716
 %TRUE LOVERS NEIGHBORS PEACEMAKING RECONCILIATIONS 060716
  %WILLING TO BE PUBLIC DEMONSTRATORS SMALL PRUDENT 060716
  %RISKS STEPS BUILD BRIDGES TRUST AMONG THEMSELVES 060716
 %OTHERS COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION EVIL 060716
%DYSFUNCTIONAL DESTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIP INTEGRITIES 060716

     True-Peacemaking involves True-Lovers-Willing-To:

     1.  Demonstrate the  Taking-of-Small-Prudent-Risks to
Build-Bridges-of-Trust Among-Themselves-and-Others.

     2.  Push-the-Envelopes  of   Collusive-Games-of-Self-
Deception  in  the directions  of  augmenting:   Civility,
Sympathy,  Empathy, Openness, Honesty, Dialogue,  Healing,
Hospitality,   Reconciliation,  Forgiveness,  Cooperation,
Collaborations, Integrations, Integrities, Shalom, . . . .

     3.  Gradually become more public in describing Their-
Own-Conflicting: Fears, Tensions, Ideals, Values, Regrets,
Mistakes,  Tragedies,  Hopes,  Aspirations,  Visions,  and
Integrative-Expectations.

     4.  Be  Less-Exclusive and More-Inclusive in  dealing
with: Wealth, Powers, Friendships, Fellowship, Communities
and Intimacies of Different-Kinds.

     5.  Focus-More  upon the  Advantages-of-Distributive-
Justice, while Focusing-Less upon the Advantages-of-Greed.

     6.  Focus-More   upon   Virtues-Demonstrated-by-Many,
Focus-Less upon the Vices-Demonstrated-by-a-Few.

     7.  Focus-More  upon: ˙Civility, Sympathy,   Empathy,
Openness,   Honesty,   Dialogue,   Healing,   Hospitality,
Reconciliation,  Forgiveness,  Cooperation, Collaboration,
Integrations, Integrities and Shalom --- as  Demonstrated-
by-Many; and Focus-Less upon the Contrasting-Vices --being
Demonstrated By-a-Few.

     8.  Focus-More upon  Affirmations and Focus-Less upon
Negations.

     9.  Focus-More  upon Agreements and  Focus-Less  upon
Disagreements.

    10.  Focus-More upon  Liberations  and Focus-Less upon
Controls.

    Be-Graciously-Together in Risky-Intimate-Relationships

    Be-Within The-Wider-Community that is in need of LOVE

    Be-Outside-of Traditional Thoughtless-Boxes-of-Fear

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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