This is http://www.essayz.com/b0607091.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE OWN REFLEXIVE LIVES REALITY 060709 %DOMINATION SYSTEMS ANALYSIS RISKS VULNERABILITIES 060709 %INVULNERABILITY SECURITY SAFETY SANCTUARY TRUE SEX 060709 %LOVERS GENEROSITY DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE HOSPITALITY 060709 %OPENNESS TRANSPARENCY AUTHENTICITY INVULNERABLE ID 060709 %TERROR TERRORISTS ABSOLUTE TRUTH UNCERTAINTY LOVER 060709 As regards Reflexive-Inter-Personal-Relationships --- all domineering people avoid Open-and-Honest-Discussions of them in general; and in particular about topics which deal Explicitly-or-Even-by-Inference with Concepts-Pointed to by the following Words-and-Phrases: 1. Intimacy, 2. Vulnerability, 3. Generosity, 4. Distributive-Justice, 5. Honesty, 6. Openness, 7. Transparency, 8. Hospitality, 9. Authenticity, 10. Integrity, 11. Coherence, 12. Balance, 13. Cooperation, 14. Mutuality, 15. Humility, 16. Patience, 17. Gentleness, 18. Empathy, 19. Sympathy, 20. Forgiveness, 21. Reconciliation, 22. Alienation, 23. Excommunications, 24. Disintegrations, etc. It is especially threatening for Domineering-People to be put in the position of having to talk about their Own-Reflexive-Relationships --- when the above suggested concepts and realities are the focus of attention. To be loyal supporters of The-Domination-System with all of their loyal friends; they must all avoid all of the risks that are entailed ever dealing with any the above two dozen realities as parts of their own reflexive-lives. The reflexive-realities must never be talked about; because it is impossible to remain totally invulnerable while talking about the reflexive-realities as part of one's own life. Appropriate Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception are mandatory for Domineering-People who are Loyal- Supporters of The-Domination-System and its Fallen-Powers- That-Be. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================