This is http://www.essayz.com/b0606131.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MUTUAL BALANCED UNDERSTANDING EACH FORM VIOLENCE 060613 %CLEAR CLARITY INTEGRITY INTEGRATION INTEGRITIES 060613 %COHERENCE UNITY LOYALTY COMMUNITY COMMUNICATION IT 060613 %ID EGO CERTAIN CERTAINTY KNOWLEDGE SCIENCE EVIL GO 060613 %LETTING TOLERATION CLINGING CLUTCHING GETTING MORE 060613 %ADDICT CODEPENDENT COMPLEMENTARY TRUE LOVER SHALOM 060613 (See the next essay for related considerations.) To understand Each-Form-of-Violence we must BE-CLEAR about the Form-of-Integrity which Each-Form-of-Violence VIOLATES; for example BE-CLEAR about INTEGRITIES of each of the following FORMS --- corresponding to VIOLENCE of each of the following FORMS: 1. Physical, 2. Psychological, 3. Spiritual, 4. God-Talk = Theological, 5. Religious, 6. Ethical, 7. Moral, 8. Objective, 9. Reflexive, 10. Personal-Relationships, 11. Communal-Relationships, 12. Intimate-Relationships, 13. Sexual-Relationships, 14. Financial-Relationships, 15. Family-Relationships, 16. Business-Relationships, 17. Scholarly-Relationships, 18. Professional-Relationships, 19. Scientific-Relationships, 20. Linguistic-Relationships, 21. Grammatical-Relationships, 22. Neighborly-Relationships, 23. Competitive-Relationships, 24. Military-Relationships, 25. Diplomatic-Relationships, 26. International-Relationships, 27. International-Trade-Relationships, 28. Agricultural-Relationships, 29. Investment-Relationships, 30. Banking-Relationships. Corresponding to each of the above FORMS-of-INTEGRITY and to each of the above FORMS-of-VIOLENCE there may be occasions of each of the above FORMS-of-INTEGRATIONS and occasions of ABSENCE of the above FORMS-of-INTEGRATIONS. They will merit consideration and thoughtful responses. ------------------------------------------------- Often what is subtly-ABSENT; is MORE-IMPORTANT than what is OBVIOUSLY-PRESENT. The nature of our responses-to: VIOLENCE-VIOLATIONS, integrations-integrities, and absences-of-them --- are just as important as are the initial presences of each of them. More-of-the-SAME cannot mitigate the Initial- Presence which may be An-Absence. Any present clarity about these matters of Presence-and-Absence is rarely an- easy-reality-to-share. ------------------------------------------------- To understand Each-Form-of-Violence we must BE-CLEAR about the Form-of-Integrity which Each-Form-of-Violence VIOLATES; for example, BE-CLEAR about INTEGRITIES of each of the above FORMS --- corresponding to VIOLENCE of each of the above FORMS: ------------------------------------------------- The higher our-standards are; the more opportunities we have for Being-Alienated by Feeling-Superior-to-Others with-whom we are NOT Graciously-Together; and so the more opportunities for Tragic-Failures to be Graciously- Together. Being Idealistic-Idealists is not enough. Be Graciously-Together in the Presence of each - - -. Shalom! (See the next essay for related considerations.) (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================