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  %CONNECT ISOLATED INDIVIDUAL HUMANE RELATIONSHIPS 060504
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     When   considering  (a)   Individual-People  and  (b)
Humane-Relationships we need to recognize that the two are
not always mutually-compatible:

     1.  Some Individual-People may not be qualified to be
participants in Particular-Human-Relationships --- because
of  the  ABSENCE   of:   (a)   technical-competencies, (b) 
relational-competencies,  (c)   compatibilities-of-ideals-
and-values and/or  (d) the  PRESENCE of distractive and/or 
conflicting-competencies,    (e) relational-preoccupations 
and/or (f) conflicting-ideals/values. 

     2.  Particular-Relationships  may  Not-be-Appropriate
to  Potential-Participants  ---  because of  the  PRESENCE
therein   of:   (a)    Precedents-Already-in-Place,    (b) 
Exclusive-Principles-Affirmed and/or (c) incompatibilities 
between  Exclusive-Principles-Affirmed  and the Potential-
Participants. 

     3.  There   may  be  Contextual-Considerations  which
transcend  the  Potential-Participants and  a  Particular-
Relationship;  AND yet they  may  not  be  aware  of those
Contextual-Considerations  and so unable to be  responsive
to the Contextual-Considerations in any intentional ways.

     4.  Those people who are involved --- may not be well
aware  of the Key-Aspects of Humane-Personal-Relationships
which  are  relevant to  these  considerations.    Humane-
Personal-Relationships may be Off-their-Radar-Screens.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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