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  %DISINTEGRATIVE TRUE LOVERS INTIMACIES CONFORMITY 051215
  %SEXUALITY UNILATERAL ABUSE COOPERATIVE PLEASURES 051215
 %CREATIVE LIFE GIVING GENEROSITY COLLABORATION GOD 051215
%OBJECT SUBJECT REFLEXIVE GOOD RELATIONSHIP BIOLOGY 051215
%PHYSIOLOGY DISEASE SPIRITUAL ECONOMIC ADDICT LEGAL 051215
%PRIVATE MORAL ETHICAL DIALOGUE COMMUNICATE RIGHTLY 051215

     It  is  disintegrative to pretend that  human  sexual
relationships  do  not often-entail relationships  of  the
following kinds:

     1.  Objective,
     2.  Subjective,.
     3.  Reflexive,
     4.  Physiological,
     5.  Biological,
     6.  Diseased,
     7.  Dis-ease,
     8.  Spiritual,
     9.  Economic,
    10.  Addictive,
    11.  Codependent,
    12.  Dependent,
    13.  Interdependent.

     Dishonesty,  pretense,  and collusive-games-of-mutual
self-deception  do not help  anybody  to  transcend  evil-
relationships wherein human-sexuality and/or intimacy play
roles.

     The unilateral exclusion  of considerations of any of
the  above  multitude of kinds of relationships  is  never
helpful;   although it likely to be practically impossible
to  consider  all  of them an a coherent way  at  any  one
moment within any group of people.

     Full   communal  integrity  and  coherence  in   such
considerations is exceedingly difficult to enjoy;  yet  we
need to recognize that movement toward such integrity  and
coherence   is  not  going  to  be   facilitated   through
unilateral demands and actions.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)


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