This is http://www.essayz.com/b0511111.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ABSOLUTE KNOWLEDGE WHO GOOD EVIL SUPERIOR INFERIOR 051111 %RITUAL IDEAL FORMS FORMAL PRESCRIBE PROSCRIBE GOD 051111 %RISKY SAFETY VULNERABILITY INVULNERABLE FORTRESSES 051111 %SANCTUARIES HOSPITALITY CIVILITY CIVILIZATION IDOL 051111 %PARADOXES COMPLEMENTARY TRUTHS TRUE LOVERS DICTATE 051111 %SCRIPTS COLLUSIVE GAMES PLAY MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION 051111 Many, if not most, kinds of human behaviors have been "ritualized", "formalized", "prescribed", "proscribed" and/or made taboo within one or more cultures --- in ways which have been: integrative, gracious, helpful, healthy, healing, civil, civilizing, honest, balanced, mutual, etc. LIKEWISE: Many, if not most, kinds of human behaviors have been "ritualized", "formalized", "prescribed", "proscribed" and/or made taboo within one or more cultures --- in ways which have been: dis-integrtive, mean, coercive, sickening, hurtful, contentious, unilateral, pretentious, extreme, hubristic, etc. Ritualizations, formalizations, prescriptions, proscriptions, and the evolutions of taboos are not in- and-of-themselves either: good/evil, good/bad, right/wrong or integrative/destructive. Much depends upon: contexts, situations, desires, wants, needs, hopes, expectations, etc. Both Domineering-People and True-Lovers have made "Pragmatic-Uses" of: Ritualizations, Formalizations, Prescriptions, Proscriptions, and the Evolutions-of-Taboos within diverse contexts --- with various kinds of fruits flowing from such pragmatic uses. Domineering-People's "Pragmatic-Uses-and-Abuses" have usually yielded various kinds of "Bitter-Fruits" --- depending upon how extreme their "Domination Systems" and/or "Control-Systems" have been. True-Lovers "Pragmatic-Uses" have usually, but not always, yielded "Sweeter-Fruits" for those who have been and/or become involved --- depending upon how: truly, openly, graciously, generously, authentically, honestly, hospitably, coherently, and lovingly they have been True- Lovers. Many "Rituals", "Formalities", "Prescriptions", and "Proscriptions" have played helpful roles within the contexts of the gracious offering of: suggestions, demonstrations, guide-lines, and role-modeling of Healthy- Human-Relations; in revealing-real-lives-and-communities and in revealing: stage-dramas, movies, musicals, videos, stories, novels, etc. Many "Rituals", "Formalities", "Prescriptions", and "Proscriptions" have played helpful roles within the contexts of the gracious offering of suggestions, demonstrations, guide-lines, and role-modeling of Human- Relations which have revealed PATHS-INTO: Domination, Coercion, Dictatorships, Empire-Building, Violence, Slavery, Submission, Sacrifice and other Deadly Patterns- of-Inhumane-Behaviors. There are many helpful ways in which athletic, artistic, scholarly and scientific contests-and-conflicts- and-games can-be-seen in the light of the above comments. Many "Rituals", "Formalities", "Prescriptions", and "Proscriptions" have played helpful roles for diverse- people in diverse-situations; sometimes with justice-for- all and other-times with justice-for-a-few. How sweet- and-bitter the fruits turn out to be --- usually depends upon the presence and/or absence of Distributive-Justice and of other central Virtues-and-Vices. True-Lovers work to reveal what is happening. Domineering-People work to conceal what is happening. Shalom is the Way of Sweet-Fruits. Domination is the Way of Bitter-Fruits. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================