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 %CREATION COMMUNAL CONTEXTS SITUATION ETHICS MORAL 051101
 %CREATION COMMUNAL CONTEXTS SITUATION ETHICS MORAL 051101
%TRUE OPEN HONEST INTIMACY RELATIONSHIPS EVIL SINER 051101
%ACCEPT TOLERATE REJECT ALIENATE EXCOMMUNICATE GODS 051101
 %ULTIMATE PREOCCUPATION CONCERN PRIORITY LOVER SEX 051101
%OPEN HONEST TOGETHER{COHERENT PEACEMAKER DOMINATOR 051101
%UNILATERAL RISK MANAGEMENT VIOLENCE COERCION GOODS 051101

     By their thoughts, feelings and behaviors Domineering 
people create communal contexts/situations within which:
     
     1.  The risks of all forms of intimacy are increased.
     2.  Being honest together become more risky.
     3.  Being open and honest about emotions is risky.
     4.  Being open and honest about creativity is risky.
     5.  Being open and honest about sexuality is risky.
     6.  Cooperation and colaboration are very risky.
     7.  Creative Integrations-of-Diversity is risky.
     8.  Dreams, visions and fantasies are very risky.
     9.  Communal-Integrations are taboo.
    10.  Distinguishing between vices/virtues is risky.
     
     The above are risky because DOMINATION depends upon:
     
     1.  Abusing points of vulnerability.
     2.  Abusing Openness-and-Honesty.
     3.  Abusing Generosity-and-Hospitality.
     4.  Abusing Civility-and-Empathy.
     5.  Abusing Sympathy-and-Sharing.
     6.  Abusing Revelation-and-Confessions.
     7.  Abusing Desires for Friendship-and-Intimacies.
     8.  Abusing Ignorance, confusion and naievete.
     9.  Abusing Poverty, Thirst, Hunger and Homelessness.
    10.  Abusing Fears, Anxiety and Alienation.
     
     Within   communities  of  Domination-and-Control  --- 
there  are  "good"   reasons  for  Domineering-People   to 
demonstrate Honor-and-Respect for each of the following:
     
     1.  Arrogance,
     2.  Unilateral-Actions,
     3.  Secrecy and Pretentiousness,
     4.  Extreme-Self-Confidence,
     5.  Self-Righteous-Indignation,
     6.  Coalitions-of-the-Powerful,
     7.  Concentrations of Power-and-Wealth,
     8.  Successful Corporations and Coalitions-of-Them,
     9.  International Military-Industrial-Complexes,
    10.  Addictions and Codependent-Supporters of them.

     Within Communitities of Domination-and-Control ---
there are "good"  reasons for Domineering-People to Label-
and-Destroy   As-Evil   any  True-Lovers   who   dare   to 
demonstrate:
     
    1.  Integrative-Humility,
    2.  Tolerance-toward-Imaginative-Creativity,
    3.  Integrations-of-Diverse-Peoples,
    4.  Integrations-of-Mutually-Complementary-Ideals,
    5.  Integrations-of-Mutually-Complementary-Values,
    6.  Integrations-of-Mutually-Complementary-Principles
    7.  Integrations-of-Mutually-Complementary-Goals,
    8.  Integrations-of-Mutually-Complementary-Desires,
    9.  Integrations-of-Mutually-Complementary-Hopes,
   10.  Speaking Gracious-Truths to Concentrated-Powers.
   11.  Gracious-and-True-Intimacies in Public-Places.
   12.  The-Transcendence of Domination and/or Controls.
   13.  The-Transcendence of Collusive-Deceptive-Games.
   14.  The-Transcendance of The Fallen-Powers-That-Be.
   15.  The-Transcendance of Concentrated-Powers & Wealth  
   16.  The-Transcendance of Public/Private Alienations.
   17.  The-Transcendance of Public/Private Ridicule.
   18.  The-Transcendance of Rejections/Excommunications.
   19.  The-Transcendance of Addictions/Codependency.
   20.  The-Transcendance of Alienative-Indepencence.

     True-Lovers and Domineering-Peoplemost  Most-Clearly- 
Reveal their True-Natures  by how they Treat-and-Relate-To 
Each-Other as Different-from-Themself;  as Integrators-or- 
Disintegrators   of  Participants  within  their  True-or-
Dishonest ---  Gracious-or-Contentious ---  Relationships-
with-Each-Different-Other.

     True-Lovers Promote-and-Faciliate Integrities.
     
     Domineering-People Undermine-and-Destroy Integrities.

     We may Know-Them By-Their-Very-Different-Fruits. 
            
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in 
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity" 
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) 

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