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 %IMPOSSIBLE LIBERATION FROM DOMINATION CONTROLLERS 051029
%CONCEPTIONS CREATIONS IMAGINATIONS DREAM FANTASIES 051029
%TRUST RESPECT HONOR REVERENCE HOLY SACRED GRACE ID 051029
  %TRUE LOVERS TRUTH KNOWLEDGE INTIMACIES SEXUALITY 051029
%TABOO COMMAND DEMAND ENJOYMENT FORBID PRESCRIBE IT 051029
%PROSCRIBE DESCRIBE HONESTY INTEGRITY COHERENCE GOD 051029

     People who have always been  victims of:  Domination,
Controllers, Violence, Imprisonments, etc. have often come
to  the conclusion that the best things possible would  be
to be  fro  them  to  to:  Totally-Free,   Liberated-From,
Independent-From,  Disconnected-From, or IN-CONTROL-OF ALL
OTHER  PEOPLE.   Such victimized people cannot imagine  or
conceive of "community" being "good" in any real way.  The
cannot  imagine or conceive of "vulnerability"  as  having
any  positive-aspect.    Their  inability  to  imagine  or
conceive --- is a tragic consequence of them always having
been victims of:  Domination,  Controllers,  Violence  and
Imprisonments.

     It  is difficult for anybody to help such victims  to
transcend  their tragic history of  victimization  because
the feel and think very deeply that:

     1.  It is not safe to trust anybody.
     2.  It is not safe to trust any community.
     3.  It is not safe to trust any powerful person.
     4.  It is not safe to be vulnerable in any way.
     5.  It is not safe to expect any kind of integrity.
     6.  It is not safe to expect any kind of integration.
     7.  It is not safe to took forward to any coherence.
     8.  The only kind of safety resides in independence.
     9.  The only kind of safety resides in isolation.
    10.  The only kind of safety resides in alienation.
    11.  True safety resides only in invulnerability.
    12.  True safety resides only in perfect defenses.
    13.  True safety resides in total domination.
    14.  True safety resides in total control.
    15.  True safety resides in disintegrative violence.
    16.  True safety resides in unlimited revenge.
    17.  True safety resides in full power-concentration.
    18.  True safety resides in full wealth-concentration.
    19.  True safety resides in perfected-narcissism.
    20.  True safety resides outside of humane-relations.

     People  who  have been victimized in the  above  ways
cannot  conceive  of  the possibilities  known  known  and
enjoyed by:

     1.  True-Lovers,
     2.  True-Communities,
     3.  Healthy-People,
     4.  Coherent-Extended-Families,
     5.  Coherent-Extended-Net-Works-of-Hospitable-People,
     6.  Coherent-Extended-Net-Words-of-Hospitable-Writing
     7.  Generous-Groups-of-Sympathetic/Empathic-Lovers.
     8.  Groups of Individuals who are Safely-Vulnerable.
     9.  People who Fully-Trust-Each-There Every-Day.
    10.  People who Give-Themselves within Healthy-Shalom.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)


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