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 %CONCEIVE DEFINE DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS WORLD 050903
%VIEW PARADIGM MOTIVE ULTIMATE CONCERN BASIC STANDS 050903
  %ATTITUDE ASSUME PAIR PATTERN CONNECT INTERCOURSE 050903
%DIALOGUE COMMUNION CONSUMMATION INTIMAT FRIEND SEX 050903
  %EXCLUDE CROWD OUT INFERIOR IDEAL VALUE PRINCIPLE 050903
 %EVIL PERSON CULTURE RELIGION SPIRIT ANGEL SCIENCE 050903

     How  people  define  EVIL depends greatly  upon their
world-view, their motives, their ultimate concerns.  There
are many such bases which may be contrasted.

     The  following  offers contrasts between between just
one  possible pair of world-views.   Many other such pairs
of  world-views  may  be  chosen and  a  similar  contrast
offered  as  regards how EVIL might be defined in each  of
the other two pair.


Words in each column point to EVIL-REALITIES as per HEADS:

True-Lovers                    Domination-System

Alienation                     Disobedience
Estrangement                   Different
Rejection                      Rebelling
Excommunication                Non-Conformal
Exclusive                      Non-Standard
Pretentious                    Immoral
Dishonest                      Disloyal
Destruction                    Diversity
Disconnection                  Divergent
Indifferent                    Rebellious
Inattentive                    Unfocused
Lethargic                      Non-Traditional
Insensitive                    Un-Bounded
Un-Responsive                  Un-Controllable
Automated                      Un-Predictable

     True-Lovers seek to be authentic servants.

     Domineering-People seek to dominate/control others to
fulfill Unilaterally-Defined-Goals to be achieved  through
Unilaterally-Devised-Technocratic-Ways.

     True-Lovers seek to be participants within  authentic
relationships  within which mutually-agreed-upon-goals can
evolve through intimate and honest dialogue which  entails
mutually-balanced-vulnerability and distributive-justice.

     True-Lovers  seek to Enjoy-Each-Other in the  Way-of-
Shalom rather than Anticipating-Unilateral-Success at The-
Destination which they have chosen.

     Domineering-People  create what True-Lovers regard as
Demonstrations of Evil-Relationships Among-Persons.

     True-Lovers  create what Domineering-People regard as
Demonstrations of Evil-Persons as Isolated-Individuals.

     Domineering-People  do NOT conceive or  create  Well-
Integrated    Isolated-Individuals   or    Well-Integrated
Communities.

     True-Lovers  DO  Conceive AND create  Well-Integrated
Healthy-Individuals   within   Well-Integrated-Communities
that   demonstrate   the  Way  of  Shalom   within   which
domination,   coercion  and  violence  rarely  play  major
roles.\
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)


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