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     Our personal-and-communal integrities are limited  by
the following --- which are echoes of each other:

     1.  Our inability/un-willingness to share particular:
         possessions, insights, revelations, pleasures,
         relationships, desires, hopes, aspirations, etc.

     2.  Our prohibitions of intimacies/relationships that
         we  ourselves cannot:  own,   possess,   control,
         manage, dominate, administer, keep, etc.

     3.  Our fears of letting go of that which we want but
         we  ourselves cannot:  own,   possess,   control,
         manage, dominate, administer, keep, etc.

     4.  Our  desires to be in control of integrations and
         integrities  which  we covet;  and feel  that  we
         should  be able to Be-in-Charge of them as  Good-
         Things To-Have.

     5.  Our refusal to let others enjoy integrations  and
         integrities  which  we covet;  and feel  that  we
         should be  able to  Be-Exclusively-in-Charge  Of-
         Them as Good-Things To-Have-Exclusively as God's-
         Things.

     6.  Our  Envey-of-Others whom we see enjoying what we
         Cannot-Enjoy in the Mutually-Exclusive-Ways  that
         we Covet-Them.

     7.  Our Exclusions-of-Others who Covet-What-We-Enjoy.


Each  of  the  above  echoes  plays  a  role  in  blocking
integrations of:


     1.  Mutually-envious people.

     2.  Mutually-envious groups/castes.

     3.  Mutually-exclusive:   ideals, values, principles,
         virtues,  goals, etc.; because they are so-viewed
         and coveted.

     4.  Idolized complementry realities.

     5.  Mutually excommunicated people.

     6.  People labeled as evil-enemies.

     7.  "Different-unknown-feared-people".

                    Shalom is The-Way Out.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)


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