This is http://www.essayz.com/b0507171.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %OUR PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITIES INTEGRATIONS 050717 %CONTROL TRAGIC RISKS ALIEN ESTRANGE EXCOMMUNE EVIL 050717 %SQUABBLE FIGHT IGNORE PREJUDICE POSSESSIVE INJUST 050717 %FLEXIBLE BLUNDER ADMIT MISTAKE HUMBLE REPENT GIVE 050717 %LEARN LISTEN ATTEND DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE RECONCILE 050717 Our Personal-&-Communal Integrities-and-Integrations depend to a large extent upon our Traditional-Ways of Trying-to-Control the Tragic-Risks which are inherent in: 1. Alienation, 2. Estrangement, 3. Excommunications, 4. Annimosity, 5. Contentiousness, 6. Quarrels, 7. Squabbles, 8. Hassles, 9. Wrangles. 10. Fights, 11. Ignorance, 12. Prejudice, 13. One-sidedness, 14. Possessiveness, 15. Prejudice, 16. Injustice, 17. Greed, 18. Avarice, 19. Stealing, 20. Attacks, 21. Seizures, 22. Aggressions, 23. Unilateral-acts, 24. Destruction, 25. Ruins, 26. Dis-ease, 27. Threatening-People. We tragically respond in Like-Kind to the above. Being self Righteous-or-Arrogant does not help. Being more Assertive-or-Violent does not help. Being more Self-Assured or Certain does not help. Being more Teachnocratically-Sophisticated fails. Concentrating Wealth-and-Power does not Truly-Help. Surrendering to Despair/Hoplessness does Not-Help. All Ways-Out Inevitably-Involve Risking: 1. Cooperation, 2. Collaboration, 3. Listening-Patiently, 4. Open-and-Honest Dialogue, 5. Prudent-Trust, 6. Learning-from-Experience, 7. Learning-from-Others, 8. Identifying-Evil-Relationships, 9. Healing-Evil-Relationships, 10. Being-Flexible, 11. Trying-New-Ways, 12. Admitting-Blunders, 13. Admitting-Mistakes, 14. Admitting-Misunderstandings, 15. Admitting-Alienations, 16. Admitting-Tragic-Misjudgements, 17. Healing-Alienation, 18. Giving-Hospitality, 19. Giving-Tolerance, 20. Giving-Forgiveness. To deal with Natural-Threats we must risk the above. Issuing Contrived-Threats only Makes-Matters-Worse. Shalom is The-Way Enjoy Shalom! www.essayz.com (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================