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  %ARROGANT SELF RIGHTEOUS ALIENATED ESTRANGED EVIL 050630
%RELATIONS FOCUS PRIORITY WORSHIP IDOLS IDEALS GOOD 050630
%FAVOR CHOOSE REJECT EXCLUDE INTEGRITY HUMILITY SIN 050630
 %AUTHENTIC TRUTH EXPERIENCE PERSONAL STORIES STORY 050630
 %GENTLE FRIEND SERVICE RECONCILE HEAL COOPERATIONS 050630
  %COLLABORATE LISTEN LEARN DILEMMA DIPLOMAT INVITE 050630

     Arrogant and Self-Righteous people regularly


     Favor and CHOOSE:             Suspect and REJECT:

     Purity                        Integrity
     Purifications                 Integrations
     Approved-Superiority          Personal-Humility
     Approved-Sophistication       Personal-Honesty
     Approved-Appearances           Personal-Authenticity
     Approved-Pretensions          Personal-Authority
     Approved-Doctrines            Personal-Truthfulness
     Approved-Truths               Personal-Experiences
     Approved-Confessions          Personal-Story-Telling
     Torture                        Gentleness
     Enmity                        Friendship
     Animosity                     Service
     Alienations                   Reconciliations
     Estrangements                 Healings
     Contentiousness               Cooperation
     Corporate-Power               Personal-Power
     Competitions                  Collaborations
     Unilateral-Action             Team-Work
     Lectures                      Listening
     Preaching                     Learning
     Problems                      Dilemmas
     Technocrats                   True-Lovers
     Militarists                   Diplomats
     Coercion                      Invitations
     Demands                       Suggestions
     Commands                      Demonstrations
     Proscriptions                 Descriptions
     Prescriptions                 Fantasies
     Prerequisites                 Friendships
     Qualifications                Intimacies
     Monologues                    Choruses
     Solo-Performances             Symphonies
     Dictations                    Dialogue
     Dictators                     Facilitators
     Empires                       Democracies
     Masks                         Transparency
     Secrets                       Sharing
     Greed                         Hospitality
     Hoarding                      Generosity
     Tension                       Relaxation
     Intensity                     Meditation
     Stress                        Rest
     Demands                       Prayer
     Collusions                    Revelations
     Attacks                       Relaxation
     Negations                     Affirmations
     Destructions                  Constructions
     Confusion                     Clarifications
     Special-Status                Servant-Status
     Invulnerability               True-Security
     Fortresses                    Sanctuaries
     Controls                      Liberations
     Prisons                       Responsiveness
     Conformity                    Creativity
     Propriety                     Spontaneity
     Formalities                   Authenticity
     Standards                     Imagination
     Judgementalism                Consideration
     Rigidity                      Robustness
     Brittleness                   Flexibility

     True-Lovers reverse the above Tragic-Choices; thereby
     avoiding ARROGANCE'S  Self-Righteous & Bitter-Fruits.

     Wherein  are  we  most  reliably  to  find   gracious
insights into how we may best and most fully enjoy Shalom? 

     In  the  technologies of people who are Arrogant  and
Self Righteous; or in the Ways of True-Lovers who know the
essential natures of Shalom in the Ways-of-Life-and-Love.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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