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 %TRUE LOVERS INTIMACY SEXUALITY VULNERABILITY GAIN 050614
   %INVOLVED MUTUALLY SELF OTHERS TRULY INTEGRATIVE 050614
 %INVULNERABLE VULNERABLE SECURE INSECURE MUTUALITY 050614
 %DEFENSIVE NONVIOLENT RESISTANCE SUBMISSIVE HONEST 050614
 %OPEN AUTHENTIC PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY SECRET 050614
 %PEACEMAKER CONFLICT RESOLUTION COOPERATION DESIRE 050614

     True-Lovers  are able to be involved with each  other
in Truly-Integrative-Intimacy while

     Domineering-People  are un-able to be  involved  with
each other in Truly-Integrative-Intimacies --- because:

     1.  True-Lovers  are free to encourage each other  to
be open-and-honest about their: feelings, visions, dreams,
fantasies,  desires, and Points-of-Vulnerability ---  past
and present;  and  desire  to do so in the Mutual-Ways  of
shalom;   demonstrating its diverse integrities To-and-For
Each-Other   with  Due-Reverence-For  Self-and-Other   ---
WHILE:

     2.  Domineering-People  in  Calculative-Ways  try  to
Take-Advantage of each other's Points-of-Vulnerability ---
past and present; desiring to do so in Unilateral-Ways of
coercion,   demonstrating their  own  Arrogant-Superiority
with No-Reverence-For Self-or-Other.

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     3.  True-Lovers  are  focused upon  Facilitating-and-
Promoting   both  Personal-and-Communal  Integrations-and-
Integrities   in  Mutually-Compatible  Ways-of-Shalom  ---
WHILE:

     4.  Domineering-People are focused  on Concentrating-
their-Gain of Wealth-and-Power in  Unilateral-and-Coercive
ways so as to achieve Invulnerability-as-Security for only
Self-Alone.
                           - - - - - -

      5.  True-Lovers can Let-Go of Self-Defensive-Ways in
Love's-Ways of Giving-and-Receiving  Without-Calculations;
WHILE:

      6.  Domineering-People  focus upon Self-Calculations
in  Isolated-Ways of Getting-and-Concentrating Wealth-and-
Powers  which are  Fallen-and-Alienative;  Corrupting-and-
Divisive.
                           - - - - - -

      7.  True-Lovers  seek  to  be  Known-and-Knowing  of
Each-Other's Desires-and-Pleasures Facilitating-Coherence;
WHILE:

      8.  Domineering people seek to be  Secret-in-Knowing
Each-Other's   Fears-and-Vulnerabilities    As-Tools-to-Be
Unilaterally-Abused for Isolated-Gain.

                           - - - - - -

      9.  True-Lovers  accept Love's-Commandments  Within-
Their-Hearts  as  True-Guides  Into-Coherence  With-Unity;
WHILE:

     10.  Domineering-People  inscribe Abusive-Scripts  in
Abuseable-Laws   as   Weapons-of-Gain  which  are  Abused-
Unilaterally in Alienative-Ways-of-Pain.

                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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