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  %RELATIONSHIPS AMONG TRUE LOVERS DOMINEERING SELF 050404
%ALIENATED INDIVIDUALISTS IDEALISTS PURIFIERS OTHER 050404
%CONTRAST EVOLUTION COOPERATE CONTEND UNITER FIGHTS 050404
%WINNERS LOSERS COMPETE ATTACK RECONCILE CONTROL IT 050404
 %THEM THEY EVIL ENEMY LABEL DEFINE REFINE COMMANDS 050404
 %LAWS ORDERS IDEAL FORMALITIES VALUES MORAL JUDGES 050404

     The Relationships-of-True-Lovers and
     The Relationships-of-Domineering-Individuals
     Evolve in Contrasting-Ways:

     True-Lovers Cooperate
     In-Letting-Go of Elements of The-Domination-System,
     In Cooperatively-Managing The-Risks-of-Intimacy.

     Domineering-Individuals Seek-To-Refine/Improve
     Elements of The-Domination-System
     In Trying-To-Control The-Risks-of-Alienation.

     True-Lovers Know-Each-Other More-and-More Intimately
     As They-Help Each-Other Trust-Each-Other;
     In-Letting-Go of Elements of The-Domination-System:

     Secrecy, Misleading-Behaviors, Managing-Appearances,
     Pretending-To-Be-Authentic, Cosmetic-Changes/Being,
     Superficialities, Formalities, Pure-Rituals, Goals,
     Wealth-Concentrations, Power-Concentrations,
     Accumulations-of: Things, Technologies, Facts,
     Information, Secrets, Defenses, Weapons, Detectors,
     Spies, Lies, Collusions, Addictions, Codependents,
     Servants, Slaves, Administrators, Loyalists, etc.

     Domineering-People Alienate-Each-Other More-and-More
     A They-Contend With-Each-Other over Which-ONE-Will
     Most-Systematically-And-Successfully:

     Dominate, Control, Command, Purify, Judge, Label,
     Punish, Conform, Formalize, Idealize, Evaluate,
     Dictate, Interpret, Violate, Coerce, Manage, Yield,
     Win, Lose, Gain, Serve, Risk, Determine, Endure,
     Bias, Prejudice, Confuse, Repress, Suppress: OTHERS.

     True-Lovers Cooperate-Within-Integrative-Efforts.
     Domineering-Leaders Disintegrate-in-Contentious-Acts

     True-Lovers Gain-Balanced-Mutual-Understandings.
     Domineering-Leaders Lose-What-They-Try-To-Gain/Get.

     True-Lovers Transcend Collusions-Addictions-Lies.
     Domineering-Leaders Fall-Into-Most-Such-Black-Holes.

     True-Lovers Find-Security in Safe-Vulnerability.
     Domineering-Leaders Lose-Security As-Invulnerability.

     True-Lovers Unilaterally-Control No-Poor-People.
     Domineering-Leaders Try-To-Control All-Poor-People.

     True-Lovers Frame-Conflicts in Open-Doors-of-Love.
     Domineering-Leaders Frame-Conflicts in Black-Holes.

     True-Lovers Shed-Light-Upon Disintegrative-Mysteries.
     Domineering-Leaders Turn-off-Lights For-Mysteries.

     True-Lovers Demonstrate the Mysteries-of-Love.
     Domineering-Leaders Pretend-to-Concentrate-Grace.

     True-Lovers Facilitate-Open-and-Honest Dialogue.
     Domineering-Leaders Inhibit All-Honest-Dialogue.

     True-Lovers Demonstrate Humility-and-Reverence
     Domineering-Leaders Demonstrate Arrogant-Hubris.

     True-Lovers Facilitate all kind forms of integrity.
     Domineering-Leaders create forms of disintegration.

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     Children do not grow up to be True-Lovers --- unless
     they live within True-Sanctuaries, and find that in
     Letting-Go-of-All-Elements of The Domination-System;
     they Wake-Up-Knowing Each-Other within Intimate-Love
     which Demonstrates True-Shalom-Security.

     Children of many Domineering-Leaders live within the
     Fortress-of-The-Domination-System which banishes all
     Risky-Forms-of: Intimacy, Honesty, Dialogue, Trust,
     Cooperation, Vulnerability, Sexuality, Letting-Go;
     and has mis-lead millions of people into Tragically
     Idealistic-Crusades, Wars, and Deaths.    Be-Shalom!

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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