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  %SMALL LARGE GROUPS INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS SEXUAL 050303
   %COMPLEXITY SIMPLICITY ISOLATION COMMUNAL FAMILY 050303
%KNOW SELF OTHER APPEAR WISH WANT DESIRE HOPE DREAM 050303
%FANTASY VISION OPEN HONEST MUTUAL DESIRES EXPECTED 050303
  %DEMAND COMMAND CONTROL VIOLATE COERCE ABUSE USED 050303
%RAPE PRETEND ARROGANT HUMILITY KINDNESS GRACE LOVE 050303
      
           Difficulties      within     "Intimate-Relationships"
      within/among  a  group of Domineering-People ---  increase
      rapidly as the size of the group increases because:
      
       1.  For "one" the relationship is unitary. (?)
      
       2.  For "two-in-isolation" the two need to deal only with
               who each:
      
               knows them self to be. (?)
               knows the other to be. (?)
               thinks they are, and wishes they were.
               thinks the other is, and wishes they were.
               thinks they can appear to be dishonestly.
               thinks they other is appearing to be dishonestly.
               wishes that the other were-in-fact.
               thinks the other wishes they were-in-fact.
               wishes the other would wish that they were.
               wishes that the other would think that they were.
      
       3.  For "three-in-isolation" there  are  three-pairs   as
           above; with the added complications that each of  the
           three-individuals  inevitably  regards  each  of  the
           three-pairs as additional-realities to be dealt with;
           and   all   the   relationships-between   pairs   and
           individuals  are additional realities ---  with envy,
           jealousy, anxiety,  fear,  greed,  covetousness, etc.
           bringing additional complications.
      
       4.  For "four-in-isolation" the complications become too
           extensive to even try to describe in a short  essay.
           Enough-for-here!
      
           If  the-group is not "in-isolation"  then  there  are
      many-complications   due  to  their  parents,   relatives,
      friends,  etc.  who are not indifferent to their  intimate
      relationships;  especially if there are hints/realities of
      private intimacies which might be sexual.
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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