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  %GIFTS CONTENTIOUS DOMINATION CHALLENGE OTHER SIN 050303
   %ALIENATION ESTRANGE EXCOMMUNE SUPERIOR INFERIOR 050303
   %ATTACK FIGHT DENIGRATE OPPOSE PREDOMINANT FORCE 050303
 %WIN LOSE CONTEST COMPETE CONCENTRATE WEALTH POWER 050303
  %CLING COERCION VIOLENCE JUSTICE WAR DISTRIBUTIVE 050303
 %TRUE LOVER GUIDE SUGGEST DEMONSTRATE ROLE MODELED 050303
      
           Domineering-People believe thattheir own  Individual-
      Fulfillment  is to Be-Achieved by giving Each-Other Gifts-
      Of Contentious-Domination.  They Ever-Challenge Each-Other
      to  Be-Superior via  their Superior-Levels of Predominant-
      Force,  Destructive-Violence,  and  Unilateral-Actions  in
      Concentrating-Wealth  and in   Concentrating-Power.    The
      Ultimate-Question   is  Who-Will-Be   Ultimately-Dominant;
      Most-Superior;   Most-Alone?  They Destroy/Eliminate Each-
      Other  in Cooperative-Violence  By-Violating  Each-Other's
      Residual-Personal-Integrities.    With  domineering-people
      Violence-is-Pre-Dominant.      Domineering-People   Cling-
      Desperately to  Coercion-and-Violence  as the Keys-to-the-
      Kingdom of Security-through-Invulnerability.
      
                            In Ultimate-Contrast:
      
           "True-Lovers"  believe that their "Joint-Fulfillment"
      will "Be-Shared" in "Being-Together"  in "Mutual-Ways"  of
      "Joined-Cooperation" in "Sharing-Gifts" of "Letting-Go" of
      "Their-Own"    "Individualistic-Invulnerability"    within
      their  "Collusive-Games" of "Mutual-Self-Deception".
      
           "True-Lovers"   "Cooperatively-Integrate"  each other
      within sanctuaries  of  "Mutual-Cooperation",   "Personal-
      Integrations"  and "Communal-Integrations" as Non-Violent-
      Peace-Makers --- by Letting-Go of  Disintegrative-Violence
      in Resisting-Violence by Walking-Together on the  paths of
      Non-Violent  Resistance-of-Violence.
      
           True-Lovers   Let-Go  of the  Myths  of "Redemptive"-
      Violence,    "Redemptive"-Coercion,    "Redemptive"-Force,
      "Redemptive"-Excommunications,       "Redemptive"-Prisons,
      "Redemptive"-Judgementalism,   "Redemptive"-Polarizations,
      "Redemptive"-Dichotomies   and   "Redemptive"-Killing   by
      Letting-Go of ALL "Redemptive" Unilateral-Actions.
      
              With True-Lovers Love is the Ultimate-Guide.
      
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           How  are  we most-reliably to discern which kinds  of
           people truly merit our honor, support and reverence?
      
                  By their pretentious-unilateral-claims?
      
                   By the actual-fruits of their-efforts?
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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