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 %DEATH DANCERS TRUE LOVERS DOMINATION SYSTEM IDOLS 050127
%COMPLEMENTARY PEOPLE RELATIONSHIPS INTEGRITIES GOD 050127
%SEXUAL INTIMACY FRIENDSHIPS SANCTUARIES COHERENCES 050127
%EXTREMISM TERRORISM WARS MYTHS REDEMPTIVE VIOLENCE 050127
%NUCLEAR WINTER LIMITED SPACESHIP EARTH HEAVEN HELL 050127
%FUNDAMENTALS PERSONAL COMMUNAL COOPERATION HEALTHY 050127
      
           Both    True-Lovers   and   Domineering-People   have
      difficulties  in managing their own and others' respective
      Tacit-Affirmations  and Tacit-Denigrations ---  but  their
      respective difficulties are  quite  different;  because of
      their different Ultimate-Concerns.
      
           Tacit-Affirmations  require the  Tacit-Acceptance  by
      other  people  of:   attitudes,   beliefs,    assumptions,
      concerns, fears,  hopes,  aspirations,  emotions,  values,
      ideals,   principles,  myths,  etc.  ---  which are  quite
      different  for  True-Lovers in  contrast  to  Domineering-
      People.     Their   difficulties  with   managing   Tacit-
      Affirmations are also different.
      
           Domineering-People   have  no  difficulty  in   being
      domineering in denigrating True-Lovers;  while True-Lovers
      have great difficulty in denigrating Domineering-People in
      keeping with  their own INTEGRATIVE:  attitudes,  beliefs,
      assumptions,    concerns,   fears,   hopes,   aspirations,
      emotions, values, ideals, principles, myths, etc.
      
           True-Lovers   have  great  difficulty   in   honestly
      accepting the  attitudes, beliefs,  assumptions, concerns,
      fears,  hopes,  aspirations,  emotions,  values,   ideals,
      principles,  myths,  etc. ---  of Domineering-People;  and
      vice versa.
      
           Domineering-People engage in the Dance-of-Death;  and
      True-Lovers  engage  in the  Dance-of-Love.    They   each
      terrify the others with their own different kind of dance.
      
           Domineering-People's Dance-of-Death leads towards the
      death-of-all-of-the-crew of Space-Ship-Earth.
      
           True-Lovers  Dance-of-Love leads towards the  HONEST-
      EXPOSURE of the lack-of-integrity in the:  Dance-of-Death,
      Domineering-People,  The Myth-of-Redemptive-Violence, The-
      Domination-System, Violence,    Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-
      Self-Deception,    Perverted-Religions,   Religious-Cults,
      Manipulative-Religions,   Power-Concentrations,    Wealth-
      Concentrations, Power-Corruptions, Distributive-Injustice,
      Dishonesty, Arrogance, Hubris, etc.
      
           The ULTIMATE-CONCERN of DEATH-DANCERS is to  maintain
      the misleading-impression that what they are doing MERITS:
      honor,  respect,  support and reverence.   They cannot see
      that their DANCE-OF-DEATH is idolatrous and disintegrative
      in  the  extreme.    True-Lovers are  often  seduced  into
      joining  in the dance-of-death --- in attempts to stop it.
      How can True-Lovers avoid-tacit-affirmations of the Dance-
      of-Death --- while being honest about where the  Dance-of-
      Death is leading?
      
           DEATH-DANCERS    cannot   tolerate   even    implicit
      criticisms of their DEATH-DANCE by True-Lovers who fail to
      join enthusiastically in the DEATH-DANCE.  Not even tacit-
      criticism  through lack of enthusiasm can be  tolerated by
      DEATH-DANCERS.    Must  LOVE-DANCERS  avoid  even   tacit-
      criticism --- in order to avoid irritating  DEATH-DANCERS?
      How are  LOVE-DANCERS  to  act, in order to  mitigate  the
      bitter fruits of DEATH-DANCERS?
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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