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 %KEYS DOMINEERING PEOPLE FAILURE UNWILLING SEE GOD 050126
%ASSUMPTIONS ATTITUDE BIAS PREJUDICE DIVIDE CONQUER 050126
%UNDERSTAND PERCEIVE HEAR SEE LEARN POLAR FRAGMENTS 050126
%DISINTEGRATIVE VIOLENT COERCIVE MEANS WARS ENDS IT 050126
%SECURITY SELFISH INVULNERABLE DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE 050126
  %GRACIOUS GIVING GENEROUS ACCEPT REJECT INCLUSIVE 050126
      
           Domineering  people  often fail because of what  they
      are unwilling to see,  hear,  perceive, understand,  learn
      and/or act upon.
      
           1.  Domineering  people refuse to let go of the  idea
      that the keys-to-security lie in: domination,  divide-and-
      conquer,     power-concentrations,     threats,    wealth-
      concentrations,  coalitions, coercion, violence,  lies and
      selfish-invulnerability.     In   keeping   with    their:
      assumptions,  attitudes, feelings, beliefs,  and alienated
      convictions  --- they  look for the  narrowly concentrated
      keys to others':  security,  domination, powers,  threats,
      wealth,    coalitions,   coercion,   violence,   lies  and
      invulnerability ---  and fail to find such keys;   because
      the real-keys are not the kinds-of-keys which they expect.
      
           2.  True-Lovers learn  together and  act  upon  their
      common understandings  and perceptions that the  keys  to:
      security,  shalom,  health, personal-integrity,  communal-
      integrity,   understanding,  cooperation and collaboration
      ---   lie  therein.  Their    path  is   one   with  their
      destination.  Their destination  lies in the path thereto.
      The means to the destination  are  not  separate/different
      from  their destination.  There  is no way/means to peace;
      because peace is the way to peace.
      
           3.  War is never the, or a, means to peace.  Violence
      is  never the,  or a,  means to peace.   Coercion is never
      the,   or a,  means to peace.    Arrogance and hubris  are
      never way-stations on the, or a, way to peace.   Military-
      Industrial-Coalitions are not the servants of peace; never
      have been; and never will be --- servants of peace.
      
           4.  We cannot  through adopting  domineering people's
      ways,   subvert the-many-ways in which  domineering-people
      undermine-and-subvert: shalom, health, personal-integrity,
      communal-integrity, cooperation, truths, complementations,
      balance,  collaboration,   civility, hospitality,   trust,
      mutuality, reverence, honor, grace, faith, hope, love, and
      all other true virtues.  Domineering people's ways are the
      essential  ingredients  of: disintegration,   destruction,
      desperation,   depression,  despair,  decline,  and death.
      Domination  yields  no  sweet fruits for anybody to  truly
      enjoy together in shalom.  Those people who keep trying to
      succeed in such ways ---  are suffering the bitter  fruits
      of: disintegration,  destruction, desperation, depression,
      despair,   decline  and  death within their  own  hopeless
      collusive    games   of   mutual   self   deception    and
      disintegration.    They cannot  learn anything from  their
      mistakes and failures --- because they are not honest with
      themselves or each other.   They dare not be; for to do so
      would  violate the Primary-Mandates of  their  Domination-
      System;  i.e.,  would expose their Ultimate-Concern; their
      own  god whom  they  seek  to  control/dominate  in  self-
      consistent ways.
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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