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 %AFFIRMATIONS NEGATIVE STATEMENTS IMPRUDENT SEXUAL 041225
%GOOD EVIL RELATIONSHIPS DISINTEGRATIVE APPROPRIATE 041225
%CONFORM TRAGIC ALIENATIVE MISGUIDED IGNORANCE TRUE 041225
%LOVERS PREJUDICE HORRIBLE DISEASE DOMINATION IDOLS 041225
%CONTROL INVULNERABLE SECURE PRESCRIPTION PROSCRIPT 041225
 %COMMAND DEMAND SYSTEM ANALYSIS REPRESSION EXPRESS 041225

     Following  are a variety of statements about  prudent
and  imprudent;  affirmations and negative-statements  ---
in various combinations.

     Prudent-affirmations      of     Prudent-Affirmations
regarding sex and sexual relationships:

 1.  Are not as such either essentially evil or good.
 2.  Are integrative in appropriate situations/contexts.
 3.  Cannot be made essentially good through conformity.
 4.  May be made tragically alienative via conformity.
 5.  Are tragically misguided by ignorance/prejudice.
 6.  In ignorance transmit many horrible diseases.
 7.  Cannot be truly good in ignorance/prejudice.
 8.  Cannot be truly good with domination/unilateralisms.
 9.  Cannot be truly good, absent all restraints/cautions.
10.  Affect the integrities of indirectly involved people.

     Following are NEGATIVE  statements  related  to  mis-
guided statements about sex  and sexual relationships.  

     About  sex  and  sexual  relationships  we   may  say 
prudently:

 1.  Sex is NOT the work of any Evil or Degenerate-Forces.
 2.  Repressions of discussions of sex are NOT helpful.
 3.  Ignorance and prejudices about sex are NOT helpful.
 4.  Being pretentious/misleading about sex does NOT help.
 5.  Sex is NOT well controlled by just rational methods.
 6.  Sex is NOT well controlled by powerful minorities.
 7.  Sex is NOT well controlled by any religious leaders.
 8.  Sexual vulnerability are NOT mitigated by dominators.
 9.  Sexual health is NOT promoted by self-righteous ones.
10.  Sexual health is NOT promoted by sexual  repressions.
11.  It is NOT good to repress learning from  experiences.
12.  Ancient truths about sex are NOT adequate today.
13.  Ancient laws are NOT free of domination's effects.
14...God does NOT bind us to ancient partial truths.
15.  Security CANNOT be enjoyed through in-vulnerability.
16.  True intimacy & sexuality CANNOT be fully  separated.
17.  Exclusivity is NOT the key to humane integrities.
20.  Purity is NOT the key to humane integrities.
21.  Exclusivity and purity are NOT keys to righteousness.
22.  Conformity is NOT the key to integrity/righteousness.
23.  Ideal-Forms are NOT keys to healthy-relationships.
24.  Prohibitions are NOT keys to healthy-sexuality.
25.  Prescriptions are NOT keys to healthy-sexuality.
26.  Human threats of alienation are never helpful.
27.  Human threats of judgments are never helpful.
28.  Human threats of excommunication are never helpful.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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