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    %OWN WORST ENEMIES RELATIONSHIPS INTIMACIES SEX 041224
 %NOT SEPARATED ALIENATED ESTRANGED ISOLATED OTHERS 041224
   %COMPLEMENTARY COOPERATIVE COLLABORATIVE FRIENDS 041224
  %CONTENTIOUS POLARIZED DICHOTOMIZE DESTRUCTIVE ID 041224
 %INTEGRITIES PERSONAL COMMUNAL ROLE MODELS COMMAND 041224
  %DEMANDS CONFORMITY LOYAL OPPOSITION NUCLEAR WARS 041224

     Our   own   worst   enemies   are   our   own   worst
relationships;  intimately   associated   with   us,   not
separated from us, and impossible to separate from us.

     Our  best  friends are those  wise,   profound,   and
prudent peacemakers who  help  us  to  heal  our own worst
relationships.

     True    peace-makers    encourage   and    facilitate
reconciliation, open and honest dialogue,  cooperation and
collaboration; to truly resolve our internalized conflicts
among our highest ideals and values.

     Our   worst   conflicts   are   among   our   highest
complementary  ideals,  values and truths;  worshipped  in
isolation as idols, each regarded as absolute by alienated
enemies.

     We   cannot   heal   our   worst   relationships   by
accentuating  our:  separations,  alienations,  arrogance,
hubris,   excommunications,   rejections,   polarizations,
dichotomies,   exclusivities,   attacks,   terrorism   and
unilateral ways of behaving.

     We  need  to  keep  the above in  mind  as  we  watch
religious/political  leaders seeking to concentrate  power
and  wealth with their dominant friends at the expense  of
powerless children of God who is a True-Lover whom we need
to imitate as true peacemakers.

     Beware of polarizers.   Beware of contentious people.
Beware of arrogance.  Beware of empire builders. Beware of
power/wealth concentrations.   Work to heal your own worst
relationships.  Shalom!

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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