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%DOUBLE TRIPPLE BOUNDED DOMINEERING PEOPLE ESCAPE 041021 %COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION PRISONS KEYS 041021 %TRAPPED DISEASE HEALING RECONCILIATION FORGIVENESS 041021 %KNOWING WHO BEING GOOD EVIL RELATIONSHIPS SINNERS 041021 %PROPER MORAL ETHICAL CONFORMITY TRADITIONS RITUALS 041021 %ACHIEVE COMPLETE SECURITY INVULNERABILITY ALIENATE 041021 Domineering people are unable to be True-Lovers because: 1. Domineering people cannot escape/release- themselves from their prisons-of-alienation --- in feeling/believing that security-and-vulnerability --- are mutually-IN-compatable; while True-Lovers know-each-other --- in-being cooperatively-mutually-intimate-balanced --- within intimate-relationships --- which essentially-entail being-safely-vulnerable with-each-other --- within cooperative-ways of being-together. 2. Domineering people must-continue their collusive- games-of-mutual-self-deception --- which mandate that they force-each-other to be dishonest-with-each-other --- about how essential to personal-and-communal-integrity --- it is that they encourage-each-other --- to be safely- vulnerable-with-each-other while being: cooperative, mutual, intimate AND balanced in open-and-honest-dialogue. 3. Domineering people are torn between/among: desire-for, hope-for, control-of, ownership-of, fear-of, envy-of, greed-for, resentment-about, ignorance-about: True-Love, Intimacy, Integration, Mutual-Acceptance, Friendship, Balance, Safe-Vulnerabilities, Sanctuary, Sanctity, Reverence, Awe, Mystery, Communal-Integrity, and other realities which are bound to Transcend, Undermine and Subvert their worshiped Domination-System that enprisons-them-together within their Evil-Relationships. 4. Domineering people are trapped between (1) THE ROCK of needing all things-people-and-relationships to-be- simple so that they-can-be-dominated --- and (2) THE HARD ROCK REALITY that most things and relationships are so- complicated that isolated-people cannot: understand, anticipate, predict, or manage even a small fraction of what is happening around themselves as alienated- individuals. 5. Domineering people as alienated-individuals are powerless to be-in-control; but yet are tempermentally- and-conceptually unqualified-to-cooperate with each other in powerful-ways; so they persistently try to dominate- each-other in alienative-ways which go-around-and-around- and-around in tragically-futile-circles of-alienation --- from which they cannot escape or extricate themselves or each other. 6. Domineering people cannot honestly deal with the un-predictable and un-controlable semi-periodic cyclic- realities which have been revealed/exposed by modern CHAOS-THEORY --- in contrast to the ancient Babaylonian Myth of the "creation" story (The Enuma Elish) from around 1250 B.C.E. --- the myth of redemptive-violence which originally "explained" CHOAS <==> EVIL. Note that whatever is choatic, not understandable, and not predictable; cannot be controled or dominated through any technological means! 7. Domineering people cannot trust each other, and certainly cannot trust True-Lovers who violate all of the rules of their Domination-System --- which is their own Eternal and All-Powerful-God-of-Domination. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================