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%ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY 041020 %RECOGNIZE INTER RELATED REALMS HUMANE RELATIONSHIP 041020 %DEVIL FAMILIAL FRIENDSHIP SCHOOL CLASS WORK SPIRIT 041020 %ASPECTS CHARACTERISTICS DIFFER SIMILAR COMPLEMENTS 041020 %BALANCE EXTREMISM COOPERATION DOMINATION MUTUALITY 041020 %UNILATERA TOLERANCE JUDGEMENT HUMILITY ARROGANCE 041020 It is important to recognize that: 1. There are many inter-related REALMS of human- relationships; e.g., familial, friendships, class-room, work, scholarly, spiritual, sexual, business, religious, etc. 2. Within each of the many inter-related REALMS of human-relationships there are many ASPECTS/CHARACTERISTICS of the human-relationships --- within each REALM of the human-relationships. 3. While the REALMS of many inter-related human- relationships differ in many ways, there are many profound similarities between the ASPECTS/CHARACTERISTICS as regards which of them are associated with INTEGRATIVE processes; and which are associated with DIS-INTEGRATIVE processes; e.g.: INTEGRATIVE ASPECTS DIS-INTEGRATIVE ASPECTS =================== ======================= 1. BALANCE EXTREMISM 2. COOPERATION DOMINATION 3. MUTUALITY UNILATERALISM 4. TOLERANCE JUDGEMENTALISM 5. HUMILITY ARROGANCE 6. MEEKNESS CONTROL 7. TRANSPARENCY SECRETIVNESS 8. AUTHENTICITY PRETENTIOUSNESS 9. HONESTY MISLEADING-BEHAVIORS 10. CREATIVITY CONFORMITY 11. SPONTANEITY FORMALITY 12. GRACE RIGIDITY 13. LOVE INSENSITIVITY 14. HOPE DESPAIR 15. GENTLENESS VIOLENCE 16. LIBERATION IMPRISONMENT 17. RELAXATION COERCION 18. INTEGRITIES CONFLICTS 19. HOSPITALITY ATTACKS 20. CIVILITY ANGER 21. INTIMACY ALIENATION 22. FRIENDSHIP ENMITY 23. TRUST SUSPICION 24. CONSTRUCTIONS DESTRUCTIONS 25. RECONCILIATION ALIENATION 26. HEALING DISEASE 27. ACCEPTANCE REJECTION 28. INCLUSION EXCLUSIVITY 29. INTEGRATIONS DISINTEGRATIONS 30. WHOLENESS FRAGMENTATION 31. UNDERSTANDING CONFUSION 32. ORDER CHAOS 33. HEALTH SICKNESS 34. PLEASURE PAIN 35. SHARING HOARDING 36. GIVING GETTING 37. COOPERATION COMPETITION 38. BEING-TOGETHER BEING-SEPARATED 39. SECURITY INSECURITY 40. SAFETY THREATS 41. SAFE-VULNERABILITY "INVULNERABILITY" 42. COMMUNAL-INTEGRITY COMMUNAL-ATTACKS 43. COMMUNAL-COOPERATION COMMUNAL-STRIFE 44. PERSONAL-INTEGRITY PERSONAL-ATTACKS 45. PERSONAL-COOPERATION PERSONAL-STRIFE Within each realm of human-relationships the traits and characteristics on the LEFT, DO usually occur in close association with each other; and/or lead to and support each other. Within each realm of human-relationships the traits and characteristics on the LEFT, DO NOT usually occur in close association with or support the traits and characteristics on the RIGHT. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Within each realm of human-relationships the traits and characteristics on the RIGHT, DO NOT usually occur in close association with nor support the traits and characteristics on the LEFT Within each realm of human-relationships the traits and charactristcs on the RIGHT, DO usually occur in close association with each other; and/or lead to each other --- and act to repress demonstrations of the traits and characteristics on the left. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - The traits-and-characteristics on the left, DO MERIT RESPECT, HONOR AND SUPPORT --- as they are present in healthy and integrative humane-relationships. The traits-and-characteristics on the right, DO NOT MERIT RESPECT, HONOR AND SUPPORT --- as they are present in unhealthy and disintegrative inhumane-relationships. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - NOTE #1: In the above descriptive-statements, the words "evil" and "devil" do NOT appear. NOTE #2: The above statements do NOT include any pre-scriptive or pro-scriptive statements. There are no commands, demands, commandments, prescrptions, or proscriptions. NOTE #3: The above statements focus clearly upon human-RELATIONSHIPS, NOT upon ISOLATED/ALIENATED INDIVIDUALS. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - An UN-BALANCED focus upon ISOLATED and/or ALIENATED INDIVIDUALS leads to traits-and-characteristics on the right above in all kinds of realms of human-relationships. A WELL-BALANCED focus upon individuals as WELL- INTEGRATED-MEMBERS of WELL-INTEGRATED-COMMUNITIES --- leads to the traits-and-characteristics on the left above --- within all kinds of realms of human-relationships. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - In the PRESENCE of balanced: generosity, hospitality, civility, and reconciliation --- both individuals and communities INTEGRATE and demonstrate many INTEGRITIES. In the ABSENCE of balanced: generosity, hospitality, civility, and reconciliation --- both individuals and communities DIS-INTEGRATE and find integrities to be threatening. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - The values and ideals of those who demonstrate the two constrasting sets-of-aspects-and-characteristics are inconsistent with each other; and lead to behaviors which are inconsistent with each other. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================