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    %UNILATERAL THOUGHTLESS INCLINATIONS THINK FEEL 040921
   %PROPER PROPRIETY FIX CORRECT RESCUE IMPROVE SEE 040921
  %PURIFY MANAGE REGULATE CONTROL DOMINATION JUDGES 040921
     %ABSENCE LACK COMMUNAL DIVERSITY COMPLEMENTARY 040921
  %VARIETY MUTUAL RESPECT COOPERATE INTERDEPENDENCE 040921
   %CIVILITY BALANCE DIFFERENCES PRSPECTIVES DEVILS 040921

     Be   aware   of  and  beware   of   all   thoughtless
inclinations to feel and think that the "proper" thing-to-
do is to unilaterally:

     1.  Fix,
     2.  Correct,
     3.  Rescue,
     4.  Improve-upon,
     5.  Purify,
     6.  Manage,
     7.  Regulate,
     8.  Control,
     9.  Dominate,
    10.  Judge, etc.

     Perhaps  the  most important word above is  the  word
"UNILATERALLY"    ---   since  that  word  suggests   that
"propriety" entails the ABSENCE of each of the following:

     1.  Communal-Diversity,
     2.  Complementary-views,
     3.  Varieties-of-roles,
     4.  Mutual-Respect,
     5.  Cooperation,
     6.  Colaboration,
     7.  Civility,
     8.  Interdependence,
     9.  Balance,
    10.  Differences in prspectives, etc.

     It  is  a perverse conception of  "propriety"   which
moves  forward  in  the ABSENCE of any of the  just  above
elements of both  personal  and  communal integrations and
integrities!  Any healthy sense of "propriety" will entail
a constant sensitivity to the possibility that each of the
just   above  realities  may   fall-by-the-wayside,    be-
abandoned, be- neglected, be-rejected-as-troublesome, etc.
as "The- Domination-System"  moves  ahead thoughlessly and
with indifference toward the needs of people who are poor,
vulnerable and or truly wish to become True-Lovers in Love
with   each  other  in  their  faith-journies  ---   which
regularly  include  mutual vulnerabilities within  secure-
communities-   of-faith which are  sanctuaries-for-all-to-
enjoy.

     We cannot achieve true personal or communal integrity
through   unilateral  efforts  which  include   persistent
efforts  to  UNILATERALLY achieve  approved  and/or  ideal
forms of:

     1.  Dominance,
     2.  Control,
     3.  Exclusivity,
     4.  Superiority,
     5.  Invulnerability,
     6.  Life-styles,
     7.  Contentiousness,
     8.  Arrogance,
     9.  Self-righteousness,
    10.  Salvation.

     Efforts  to  unilaterally-achieve each of  the  above
goals will naturally lead to disintegrations through:

     1.  Alienations,
     2.  Estrangements,
     3.  Ignorance,
     4.  Biases,
     5.  Prejudices,
     6.  Distrust,
     7.  Enmity,
     8.  Violence,
     9.  Tensions,
    10.  Excommunications, etc.

     Under such conditions it is impossible to enjoy:

     1.  Balance,
     2.  Mutuality,
     3.  Cooperation,
     4.  Colaboration,
     5.  Relaxation,
     6.  Rest,
     7.  Integration,
     8.  Coherence,
     9.  Unity,
    10.  Civility.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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