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   %KINDS RELATIONSHIPS EVOLVE BETWEEN AMONG PEOPLE 040919
   %QUESTIONS ISSUES CONFLICTS CONTRATING REALITIES 040919
   %DOMINATION SUBMISSION CONTROL COOPERATE CONTROL 040919
 %ARROGANCE HUMILITY RESISTANCE COLABORATE CYNICISM 040919
%HOPE TECHNOCRAT AUTHENTIC MEANNESS GENTLENESS GODS 040919
 %INVULNERABLE HOSPITALITY DISTRUST DEMAND TOLERATE 040919

     The  kinds  of relationships which can and do  evolve
between and among us --- depend greatly upon what we bring
to our evolving relationships.  It depends upon  how prone
we  are  to deal dishonestly with our-questions-and-issues
pertaining to our-contrasting-realities such as:

     1.  Domination and submission.
     2.  Contols and cooperation.
     3.  Arrogance and humility.
     4.  Resistance and collaboration.
     5.  Cynicism and hope.
     6.  Technocracies and authenticity.
     7.  Meanness and gentleness.
     8.  Contentiousness and civility.
     9.  Greed and generosity.
    10.  Invulnerability and hospitality.
    11.  Distrust and trust.
    12.  Demands and tolerance.
    13.  Pretentiousness and honesty.
    14.  Extremism and balance.
    15.  Prejudice and curiosity.
    16.  Unilateralism and agape.
    17.  Addictions and true-love.
    18.  Dependence and inter-dependence.
    19.  Addiction/codependence and mutuality.
    20.  Terrorism and reconciliation.
    21.  Exclusive-clubs and true-sanctuaries.
    22.  Role-players and True-Lovers.
    23.  Scripts/scriptures and spontaneity.
    24.  Legalists and friends.
    25.  Competators and faciltators.
    26.  Authoritarians and descriptive-existentialists.
    27.  Conformists and shakers-of-foundations-of-being.
    29.  Concentrators-of-Power/Wealth and Peacemakers.
    30.  Retributive-Justice and Distributive-Justice.
    31.  Disintegrators and Integrators of persons.
    31.  Disintegrators and Integrators of communities.
    32.  Purifiers/sorters and Reconcilers/healers.

     Our   relationships  become  healthy   or   sickening
depending     upon     how     we-participants-within-our-
relationships respond to the above  contrasting  realities
in-our-meetings-with  each-other-person  who  is  involved
within    our-relationships.  Are our-meetings alienative-
occasions  or  occasions  for  reconciliation?    Do  our-
meetings entail competition or cooperation?    Etc?   Note
the  contrasting-patterns in relationships indicated below
in the next paragraph:

    Left<----->Left:  People  who  identify-favoribly with
what-words-ABOVE-on-the-LEFT POINT-TO are  VIRTUALLY-NEVER
able to participate in-integrative-ways with EACH-OTHER.

     Left---->Right:  People who  identify-favoribly  with
what-words-ABOVE-on-the-LEFT POINT-TO  are  RARELY able to
participate in-integrative-ways  with people who identify-
favoribly with what-words-ABOVE-on-the-RIGHT point-to.

     Right<->Right:  People  who  identify-favoribly  with
what-words-ABOVE-on-the-RIGHT POINT-TO are USUALLY able to
participate in-integrative-ways with EACH-OTHER

     Left<---Right:  People  who  identify-favoribly  with
what-words-ABOVE-on-the-RIGHT  POINT-TO are SOMETIMES able
to   participate   in-integrative-ways  with  people   who
idenify-favoribly with what WORDS-ABOVE-on-the-LEFT point-
to.

     The ABOVE are descriptive-statement; not prescrptive-
statements, nor  proscriptive-statements, nor  scriptural-
statements,   nor statements from scripts for  anybody  to
follow.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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