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 %FAVORED PARADIGMS COSMOLOGIES MYTHOLOGIES SCRIPTS 040510
%UNBIASED OBJECTIVITY SUBJECTIVITY REFLEXIVITY EVIL 040510
  %INTIMATE TRUE LOVER RELATIONSHIPS RECONCILIATION 040510
 %PERSONAL INTEGRITY APPEARANCES LEGITIMATE HONORED 040510

      We   need  to  be  clear  in  our  own  minds   that
Domineering-People   who  are  in  the  service  of   "The
Domination   System"   will  naturally  favor   paradigms,
cosmologies,    mythologies,   scriptures,   institutions,
theologies, etc. --- which will empower their domineering-
spirits ---  and try to make whatever they serve to appear
legitimate, honorable, respectable, etc.  Their ostensible
motivations, intentions, promises, covenants, etc. need to
validated  by their demonstration of  coherent patterns of
behavior,  actions,  deeds,  and healthy relationships ---
before  we  risk investing much trust in them and/or  take
many risks with them.

      1.  Do their actions fit their words?
      2.  Are their affirmations internally coherent?
      3.  Are they committed to facilitating integrity.
      4.  Do they often denigrate others' affirmations?
      5.  Are they often contentious --- or cooperative?
      6.  Are they generous and hospitable, or defensive?
      7.  Do they listen carefully to what others affirm?
      8.  Can they represent faithfully what others say?
      9.  Do they sympathize with others in difficulty?
     10.  Do the take advantage of others vulnerabilities?

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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