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%ATTEMPTS SUCCESSFUL ACHIEVEMENTS MERIT RESPECT God 040510
%HONOR SUPPORT REVERENCE HOLY SACRED UNDERMINE EVIL 040510
%INTIMATE OPEN HONEST SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP INTEGRITY 040510
%UNILATERAL DOMINATION CONTROL SYSTEMS ANALYSIS SIN 040510
 %RECONCILIATION FORGIVENESS PEACEMAKING TERRORISTS 040510
%COLLUSIONS ADDICTIONS CODEPENDENTS ALIENATION GOOD 040510

      No  achievement  of  any  the following  kinds  ever
merits  our  respect,   honor,  support or  reverence  ---
because achievements  of  the  following  kinds  undermine
and/or  destroy  personal  and  communal  integrities  and
processes of integration.

      1.  Being  able to UNILATERALLY dominate/control any
person's RELATIONSHIPS with any other persons.

      2.  Being   able  to  UNILATERALLY  dominate/control
RELATIONSHIPS within and among any other persons.

      3.  Being able to UNILATERALLY determine  and  label
which ISOLATED individual persons are "good", "acceptable"
and/or   "includable";   and  which  ISOLATED   individual
persons are "evil", "rejectable" and/or excludable".

      4.  Being  able  to UNILATERALLY  isolate,  alienate
and/or excommunicate any person or persons.

      5.  Being  able to UNILATERALLY dominate/control how
and   why  any  person  or  persons   HONESTLY-ATTEMPT-TO-
COMMUNICATE what they believe, feel,  need,  desire, fear,
hope-for,  respect, honor, reverence, etc.

      6.  Being able  to UNILATERALLY dominate,   control, 
determine  and/or label ---  whether-or-not other  persons 
are engaged in open,   honest,  intimate,  sexual,  civil, 
contentious,   cooperative,    collaborative,   hospitable 
and/or loving RELATIONSHIPS. 

                   - - - - - - - - - - - - - -

     UNILATERAL ATTEMPTS-TO-CONSUMATE the  above kinds  of
achievements do NOT merit our respect,  honor,  support or
reverence  ---   because such ATTEMPTS (even  without  any
successes)  undermine and/or destroy personal-and-communal
integrities --- and undermine and/or destroy PROCESSES-OF-
INTEGRATION.

        We  may reliably recognize differences between and
among  OUR-RELATIONSHIPS by-their-fruits and costs ---  by
what  "we-get"  and by what "we-and-others"  SACRIFICE  in
order  to create and maintain our  dominant  relationships
e.g.,  SACRIFICING ---  honesty,  civility,  authenticity,
authority,  reverence, hospitality,  generosity,  sharing,
openness,  humility, balance, mutuality, consent,  health,
integrity,  dialogues, communications, coherence, feeling,
hearing,  thinking reasoning,  affections and the sense of
being-in-touch.

by what "we-get"  and by what "we-and-others" SACRIFICE in
order to create and maintain  our dominant  relationships;
e.g.,  SACRIFICING --- honesty,  civility,   authenticity,
authority,  reverence,   hospitality, generosity, sharing,
openness, humility,  balance, mutuality,  consent, health,
integrity,    dialogues,    communications,     coherence,
understanding,   insights,  sight, sanctuaries,    seeing,
feeling,  hearing,  thinking,  reasoning,  affections  and
sense of being-in-touch.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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