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%TRUE LOVERS OPEN HONEST CIVILITY HOSPITALITY GRACE 040506
%OVERT EXPLICIT ARTICULATIONS DESCRIPTIONS FORGIVEN 040506
%SHAME BLAME GUILTY EMBARRASS PUNISHED CRUCIFIED IT 040506
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%LOUD SONGS DRUMS CYMBALS TRUMPETS MUSIC CHORUS SIN 040506

     Motivations  are important.  Domineering people  look
for points of vulnerability ---  so that they can dominate
vulnerable  people.    True-Lovers  look  for  points   of
vulnerability ---  so that they can help vulnerable people
be  free to be safely vulnerable within sanctuaries  which
they build cooperatively with honor for all to enjoy.

      Domineering   people  cannot  successfully  dominate
True-Lovers who  are  free,   and feel free, to  be safely
vulnerable within sanctuaries which they build openly-and-
honestly-together,  with balanced-and-mutual-honor, within
Love, within truly open-and-honest-intimate-relationships.

      For the  above  reasons  --- domineering  people who
support  "The Domination System"  without reservations  as
idolaters --- insist  that  others  overtly,  publicly and
enthusiastically  support "The Domination System"  without
reservations.

      The more that domineering people "succeed"  the more
that we need to respond to domineering people: graciously,
openly,  clearly,  coherently, publicly, unashamedly,  and
with personal and communal integrity.

      "True-Lovers"   succeed in revealing to  domineering
people the many wonderful possibilities for TRUE:

      security,    meaning,     community,    cooperation,
collaboration,   civility,   hospitality,    togetherness,
sharing and SHALOM ---

      within  the  reconciling and integrative  realms  of
Love ---

      which  knows/acknowledges  no DOMINEERING:   bounds,
boundaries,     laws,     commandments,     prescriptions,
proscriptions, demands, controls, coercion,  violence,  or
other manipulative tools of "The Domination System"   with
all  of its "Fallen-Powers-That-Be" ---

      within addictions,   codependencies,   conspiracies,
destructive-coalitions, corrupted-concentrations-of-power,
and collusive-games-of-mutual-self-deception.

      For the above reasons "The Domination System"  works
covertly,  tacitly,  implicitly,  silently,  and in  other
unarticulated   ways   to   encourage/require   that   all
communications be ---

covert, tacit, implicit, silent, secret, hidden,  private,
un-written, un-exposed to public attention, etc. --- and

punishes Anti-Domination-System" communications which are

overt, out-in-the-open, explicit, loud, public,  revealed,
published, written, exposed to public-discussion, etc.

      By  being cooperatively-together as who they are in-
public ---  True-Lovers threaten "The Domination  System".

      In  response  "The  Domination  System"   motivates,
guides   and   leads   domineering-people   to   ridicule,
denigrate,  embarrass and otherwise  try  to  disintegrate
True-Lovers through gossip,  false-witness,   accusations,

trials, repressions, suppressions and crucifixions.

                       - - - - - - - - - -

Domination cannot be mitigated through MORE domination.

Violence cannot be mitigated through MORE violence.

Dishonesty cannot be mitigated through MORE dishonesty.

Coercion cannot be mitigated through MORE coercion.

Repression cannot be mitigated through MORE repression.

Suppression cannot be mitigated through MORE suppression.

Arrogance cannot be mitigated through MORE arrogance.

Collusions cannot be mitigated through MORE collusions.

Secrecy cannot be mitigated through MORE secrecy.

Self-righteousness cannot be mitigated through MORE.

Terrorism cannot be mitigated through MORE terrorism.

War cannot be mitigated through MORE war.

Extremism cannot be mitigated through MORE extremism.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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