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%IDENTIFY LABEL BLAME SHAME GUILT RESPONSIBLE ALIEN 040427
%ENEMY WAR TRAITOR MORE LESS WINNER LOSER COMPETION 040427
%AFFIRMATION WORDS ROLE MODEL PROMISE ACTION LOVERS 040427
%DENIGRATION WIDER SCOPE INTEGRITY INCLUSIVE REJECT 040427
%DEFENSIVE UNILAERAL DEMANDS COMMANDS PRESCRIPTIONS 040427
  %ALLEGIANCE LOYALTY TRADITION LORD KING DICTATORS 040427

      When   we   are   seeking   to   identify   who   is
significantly responsible  for  alienation,  estrangement,
excommunication,   EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS,   etc.   ---    the
following  questions  are good   questions  to   ask   and
talk   about   without  biased pre-judgments  leading  the
way:

      1.  Who-has-more  and who-has-less:  power,  wealth,
possessions,      freedom,     education,     health-care,
housing, clothing, alternatives, etc.

      2.  Whose   affirmations,   words,    role-modeling,
promises,     actions,     personal-characteristics    and
relational-characteristics  demonstrate  the  greater  and
wider-scope-of integrity?

      3.  Who   has  been  most  vulnerable,    defensive,
unilateral,  domineering,  contentious, humble,  generous,
kind, and/or self-righteous?

      4.  Who  has  been the most indifferent to  who  is:
vulnerable,  poor,  powerless, sick,  homeless,  hopeless,
etc;  and/or to their legitimate needs under international
declarations of human rights.

      5.  Who  has  been demanding allegiance to  them  as
domineering people --- and taking any refusal to obey them
--- as signs of enmity, disloyalty, being-evil, etc.

      6.  Who   has   made   and   demonstrated   balanced
commitments  to facilitate  and promote both personal  and
communal kinds of integrities and integrations;  doing all
graciously, civility, honestly, authentically, etc.

      7.  Who seeks to transcend competitive, contentious,
win/lose, coercive,   violent,    domineering   and   evil
relationships  ---  wherein domineering people insist that
others  must join   with  them as participants within such
alienative relationships.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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