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   %TRUE LOVERS RECOGNIZE NAME ACKNOWLEDGE DESCRIBE 040330
  %COMPLICATED DIFFICULT HELPFUL FACILITATIVE GUIDE 040330
  %IDEAL VALUE PRINCIPLES ABSOLUTE TRUTH LAWS RULES 040330
%INTIMATE FRIENDSHIPS SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS NEIGHBOR 040330
  %LOVE LAWS COMMANDMENT JUDGE DOMINEERING COERCIVE 040330
%EVIL RELATIONSHIPS INDIVIDUALS RISK MANAGEMENT GOD 040330

     True-Lovers recognize, name, acknowledge and describe
how complicated and difficult it is to articulate  helpful
and  facilitative:

     suggestions,
       guidance,
         guidelines,
           ideals,
             values,
               principles,
                TRUTH,
                 RULES,
                   LAWS,
                     COMMANDMENTS,
                        JUDGEMENTS,
                         ETC.

     regarding  the  evolutions  of  intimate  and  sexual
relationships  between/among  many friends and  neighbors.

     It is  Not-So among domineering, coercive and violent
people --- who desperately try to believe and confess that
it is simple and easy to know the difference between Good-
People and evil-people --- just by eating regularly of the
fruit of the  Tree-of-the-Knowledge  of Good-People and of
evil-people.

     They  know  well where The-Tree is  in the Middle-of-
Heaven in  God's-Eternal-Presence  and Knowledge  ---  for
they  pick/select desirable fruit on a regular basis,  and
visit publicly with God on a regular basis in the midst of
God's Garden on every Sabbath.

     True-Lovers acknowledge,  describe and talk about the
inherent difficulties inherent in:

     1.  Knowing which-people are evil-people,  and which-
people are good-people --- apart from having difficult-to-
discern  reliable-knowledge  about  all-aspects  of  their
intimate-friendships  and the  healthy-integrative-sexual-
aspects of their private-intimate-relationships.

     2.  Risk-management in regards to openness,  honesty,
intimacy,  jealousy,  resentment,  disappointments;  self-
control,  controlling-others,   controlling-relationships,
controlling-dreams,   controlling-hopes,  and controlling-
fantasies   ---    without  engendering   coercive/violent
conflicts which lead to alienation, estrangement and evil-
relationships.

     3.  Risk-management in  regards  to diverse people's:
arrogance,    self-righteousness,    pride, purifications,
purity,   excommunications,   exclusivity,    inclusivity,
tolerance,  intolerance,  acceptance, salvation,  success,
achievements,   security,   insecurity,   invulnerability,
embarrassments and being-safely-vulnerable.

     4.  Facilitating  and promoting:  humility,  healthy-
friendships-intimacies,     personal-communal-integrities,
dynamic-stability, open-honest-dialogue, coherence, unity,
cooperation, collaboration, true-sanctuaries, shalom, etc.

5. Maintaining-traditions,  fulfilling-expectations,


proper-conformity,    improper-conformity,     creativity,
imagination,  stability, balance,  flexibility,  rigidity,
etc.

     6.  Prudent-fears, wisdom, imprudent-fears,  anxiety,
paralysis,    paranoia,   defensiveness,   mob-psychology,


gossip, judgmentalism, perfectionism, idealism, etc.

     7.  Independence,    dependence,    inter-dependence,
individualism,     communism,    socialism,    capitalism,
exploration,    hospitality,   civility,   greed,   power-
concentration, corruption, etc.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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