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%BALANCE COMPLEMENTARY VIRTUE COOPERATION ASSERTIVE 040117
 %ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY 040117
%DOMINATION SYSTEMS ANALYSIS ACCEPT REJECT COERCION 040117
   %ADDICTIVE CODEPENDENT COLLUSIVE GAMES DECEPTION 040117
 %CERTAINTY ABSOLUTE TRUTH ARROGANCE SELF-RIGHTEOUS 040117
%COMPLEMENTARY VIRTUES TERRORISM WAR VIOLENCE EVILS 040117

     Balance is both essential and difficult to achieve as 
regards  the  complementary virtues of "cooperation"   and 
"leadership".
     
     Domineering  people are  likely to assert  themselves 
confidently  and  be accepted  as  leaders.    Cooperative 
people    are   likely  to  accept   the   leadership   of 
domineering   people   ---   and   become   enslaved    to  
domineering     people    within     addictive-codependent  
relationships.    Domineering people  are  NOT  likely  to  
understand   and   respond  to suggestions  that  they  be  
less domineering.     Cooperative people  are  NOT  likely  
to   understand  and  respond  to suggestions  that   they  
be  more  assertive  and willing  to  take  on  leadership 
positions. 
     
     People need  not be domineering to be  assertive in a 
balanced  way.   Cooperative people need not give  up  the 
virtue  of cooperation to be more assertive.   All  people 
need  to work together to achieve the essential balance by 
integrating the complementary virtues of "cooperation" and 
"assertiveness". 
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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