This is http://www.essayz.com/b0401054.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SYSTEMS ANALYSIS STORIES VICTIM DOMINATION SINS 040105 %DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE POINTS VIEW VULNERABLE POOR 040105 %ANNONOMOUS CONTEXTS COERCION ACTS EMOTIONAL PATHS 040105 %CAUSE EFFECT MTIVATIONS LEARNED BEHAVIOR ROOTS 040105 %TRAGIC CYCLES ALIENATION ESTRAGEMENT REJECTIONS 040105 %EXCLUSION SANCTUARIES FEEDOM SAFELY VULNERABLE 040105 It will probably be helpful to collect stories from victims-of-domination and from dominators (anonymously) regarding: 1. Contexts of domination, coercion, violations. 2. Particular acts which occasioned alienation. 3. Their emotional responses to domination. 4. Practical difficulties due to domination. 5. Reasons for domination, coercion, violations. 6. Motive for domination, coercion, violations. 7. Where they learned to behave as they have. 8. Roots of their most extreme fears/anxieties. 9. Justifications for alienative behaviors. 10. How victims of domination are viewed. Such stories will be most helpful if they do not threaten the particular victims or those who victimized them; yet help such people to see things from the point of view of different people. We need to learn to discern the chains-of-events which cause: rejections, exclusions, alienation, resentment, anger, ignorance, fears, prejudice, misunderstanding, attacks, denigrations, defensiveness, etc. to cycle around and around in viscous cycles which do not repeat in detail, but which nevertheless cycle around and around chaotically. Only when many people understand and can trace such cycles around and around --- will they be motivated to do what they can do to bring an end to such tragic cycles. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================