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  %PATTERNS TREATMENT NEGLECT IGNORED SIDELINED SIN 031017
 %RIDICULE DENIGRATE ATTACK DESTROY POOR VULNERABLE 031017
%EMBARRASS TRUTHS ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS INTEGRITIES 031017
%JUSTICE HEALTH CATEGORIES LANGUAGE WORD CLEAR GOOD 031017
 %DEVIL PEACEMAKER RECONCILER HEAL ALIENATION GREED 031017
%PERVERTED VIRTUES IDEALS VALUES PRINCIPLES JUSTICE 031017

     Domineering    people   reveal   their   motivations,
interests, desires, intentions, prejudices, fears, biases,
etc. ---  by how they: treat,  neglect,  ignore, sideline,
ridicule,  denigrate,  attack,  and/or destroy  particular
kinds of realities; e.g.,

     1.  Poor people.
     2.  Vulnerable people.
     3.  Minority people.
     4.  Embarrassing truths.
     5.  Essential foundations for integrities.
     6.  Essential foundations for justice and health.
     7.  Essential categories/language for clear thinking.
     8.  True-lovers, diplomats and peacemakers.
     9.  Healers and reconcilers of human alienation.
    10.  Well integrated people and relationships.

     Domineering  people's  revelations  pointed  to above
pertain   to  their  efforts to be dominant  and  be  "in-
control"   of what is happening  around  them  in  humane,
reflexive, subjective and  objective  relationships.    To
understand their particular patterns of behaviors we  need
to  work to discern  how their patterns of behaviors "make
sense"     as  due  to  "The  Domination  System"    which
motivates  and guides their overall patterns of attitudes,
feelings, prejudices, desires,  intentions,   motivations,
thinking,   decision-making  and  setting  of  priorities.
Only  when   we  can discern  how   their   twisted   ways
make   sense   in  their perverted  realms  of  being  ---
can we understand how  to relate  to  them  in  ways which
may be helpful,   healing,  reconciling, and  integrative.
We   cannot   be   helpful,   healing,   reconciling   and
integrative so  long as we copy their  particular patterns
of   behaviors  which  focus narrowly upon domination  and
issues of control.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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