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  %OPEN HONEST RELATIONSHIPS PARTICIPANTS INTEGRITY 030818
   %REVELATION LIMITATIONS VULNERABILITY WEAKNESSES 030818
  %ENEMIES RISKS THREATEN SECURITY SAFETY RIGHTEOUS 030818
%HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS DENIGRATE TRUE LOVERS AUTHOR 030818

     To  the extent that we become  involved in  open  and
honest relationships with  people  who  are  demonstrating
personal  and  communal forms of integrity  ---   to  that
extent  our own limited forms  of  personal  and  communal
integrity  are  revealed  to  us  and  to  others.    Such
revelations  are often disconcerting,   threatening,   and
engender  fear  in  us.    Authentic people who  are  true
lovers  in being true to themselves and each other,  often
threaten   our  dishonest  ways  and  dishonest  forms  of
pretentious security.

     Insecure  and  fear-full people often seek  to  avoid
becoming  involved in open and  honest relationships  with
people who are demonstrating  personal and communal  forms
of integrity ---   because insecure  and fear-full  people
are often playing collusive games of mutual self deception
with  themselves  and  with each  other  as:   domineering
people,    supporters  of "The Domination  System"     and
as supporters of the dishonest "Powers That Be".

     Many critics who denigrate true-lovers for being law-
less and non-conformists ---  are fearful-people who  have
been threatened  by the high-levels-of-integrity of  true-
lovers and their  intimate-relationships  with each other.
True-lovers make dishonesty become evident!

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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