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   %DYSFUNCTION EXPRESSION SEXUAL DESIRES UNDERMINE 030815
%PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITIES BOUNDARIES FANTASIES 030815
%UNILATERAL DOMINATIONS DISHONEST DEMANDS RISK LOVE 030815
%ARROGANT COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION GOD 030815
%CONTROL COMMAND THOUGHTS VISIONS HOPES ASPIRATIONS 030815
   %ADDICTION CODEPENDENCE SELF OTHER RIGHTEOUSNESS 030815

     Dysfunctional expressions of sexual desires undermine
both personal and communal integrities.   There need to be
some healthy boundaries drawn which help to us to mitigate
dysfunctional and dishonest expressions  of sexual desires
and fantasies.    Such boundaries are not helpful if  they
encourage (or demand) dishonesty in  any way; e.g.,  about
our  sexual  desires,   visions  and/or  fantasies.     To
encourage (or demand)  be dishonesty in any  way --- is to
risk the development of patterns of:

     (1)  Collusive games of mutual self deception,
     (2)  Addiction and codependence,
     (3)  Self-righteousness and/or arrogance,
     (4)  Domination, coercion, violence, terrorism.

     Arrogant  and  self-righteous people who  attempt  to
unilaterally cure  patterns of dysfunctional sexuality ---

      are not helpful when they play collusive games of
      mutual self deception about ---

        their having the insights, understanding and
        powers needed to achieve such unilateral cures ---

          in ways which entail addictions, codependence,
          domination, coercion, violence or terrorism ---

            for such ways lack integrity.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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