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    %LIKE MINDED DOMINANT PEOPLE UNILATERAL CONTROL 030814
   %GANG CLIQUE MOB PSYCHOLOGY EXCLUSIVE REJECTIONS 030814
 %INDIVIDUALS GROUPS CONCENTRATED POWER CORRUPTIONS 030814
 %SELF-RIGHTEOUS RELIGIOUS ARROGANCE PURITY PURITAN 030814
    %CONTROL LAW ORDERS PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS 030814
  %DOMINATION COERCION VIOLENCE ALIENATION ESTRANGE 030814

     A  group  of like-minded domineering people  can  act
unilaterally  in their efforts to control more  vulnerable
people.    Groups,   as  well  as  individuals,   can  act
unilaterally.

     What is missing in unilateral actions (by individuals
and/or   by  groups)   is  the  invited  and   facilitated
cooperation  and/or collaboration  of  those   individuals
and/or  groups which  the  dominant   individuals  and/or
groups are seeking to dominate and/or control.

     Unilateral actors (whether individuals and/or groups)
are NOT seeking cooperation or collaboration.   Unilateral
actors  are  seeking  dominance and/or total  control  ---
which cannot  be  achieved  in  the  presence of much true
cooperation or collaboration.

     Unilateral actors,  dominators and controllers can be
readily recognized by what is MISSING from their lives and
behaviors;   TRUE:   lovers,   peacemakers,   reconcilers,
balance,   mutuality,  reverence,  hospitality,  civility,
patience,   etc.    These are NOTABLY MISSING  from  lives
because  of  their  compulsive  concerns  with  issues  of
control and dominance.

     We  cannot  help  or  control  unilateral  actors  by
becoming  like  them  by changing the primary foci  in our
lives --- in terms of presences and absences.   If we copy
them in regards to "The Powers That Be" in their dishonest
lives,  we will augment:  domination,  coercion, violence,
alienation,  estrangement,   misunderstandings, imbalance,
extremism and terrorism in our lives;  and in the lives of
those around us.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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