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 %DOMINANCE CONVERSATION ASSUMPTIONS QUESTIONS EVIL 030725
%ATTITUDE ANSWER DICHOTOMOUS NEITHER DEMAND RESPOND 030725
 %CONTROL MANAGEMENT TRICK SEDUCE INTIMATE CONVERSE 030725
%VIOLATE PRIVACY COERCE SEXUAL ABUSE ASSAULT VERBAL 030725
%FEELINGS DESIRES HOPES ASPIRATIONS MUST TAKE STAND 030725
%SETTING PRIORITIES MOST EFFECTIVE SPEND TIME MONEY 030725

     Beware  of  how domineering-people achieve  dominance
over a conversation by:

     1.  Insisting   that   others   answer    domineering
questions without examining or criticizing the assumptions
upon which the domineering questions are based.

     2.  Demanding that others respond to questions  which
demand or require either "yes" or "no" for an answer.

     3.  Tricking  others into conversations which  reveal
private aspects of their lives which they have no interest
in revealing;  but are tricked into situations where it is
awkward   or  difficult  to  back out  of  a  conversation
already under-way.

     4.  Tricking people into feeling that they must  take
a "stand"  on controversial issues which are framed on the
basis of false or misleading presentations/assumptions.

     5.  Tricking  people  into  feeling that the  way  in
which  they are spending their time is of no  value,   and
that  the  way  in which domineering people  are  spending
their time is of great value.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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