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%BEING REBELLION AGAINST DOMINEERING LEADER CONTROL 030703
%INTRUSION LEGITIMATELY PRIVATE LIVES TRAGIC EFFECT 030703
%HONESTY CLEAR SORT DIFFERENCES RESIST VIOLENCE SIN 030703
   %LIMITS LIMITATIONS IMPOSSIBLE MORTALS BORN LIVE 030703
%SEXUAL DIE DEATH LEARN MISTAKES TEMPTED BLAME SELF 030703

     Being  in  rebellion  against domineering people  who
intrusively try to control our legitimately private  lives
and relationships --- has some tragic consequences:

     1.  We  cannot  honestly  and clearly  sort  out  the
differences  between resisting honestly against domination
---   and rebelling dishonestly against our own limits and
limitations  as mortals ---  who are born,  live imperfect
lives, and die ---  after living for a time which is short
in  terms of human history,  and tiny in comparison to the
age of the cosmos as a whole.

     2.  Through  our  dishonest rebellion we become  like
the  domineering  people against whom we rebel;  and  lead
others  to do as we have done ---  become dishonest rebels
who are domineering;  in frustration.

     3.  We blind ourselves against seeing the mistakes we
make; and so we fail to learn from the mistakes we make.

     4.  We   are   tempted  to  blame  others   for   our
dysfunctional patterns of behaviors; and so do not outgrow
them  and  do not avoid the great costs of  continuing  to
demonstrate dysfunctional patterns of tragic behaviors.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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