This is http://www.essayz.com/b0306041.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FEW ABSENT LACKING SUCCESS STORIES DOMINEERING SIN 030604 %CONFORMITY CONVICTION BELIEF THOUGHTS DESIRES EVIL 030604 %INTIMATE PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS IMPOSE COERCION 030604 %INTERNATIONAL RULES HUMAN RIGHTS PRIVACY DIALOGUE 030604 %OPEN HONEST CIVIL GRACIOUS GENEROUS HOSPITABLE GOD 030604 %ARROGANT SELF RIGHTEOUS DISHONESTY ADDICTION GAMES 030604 Are there any well documented occasions of domineering people successfully imposing their own rules --- rules that demand conformity to their own patterns of conviction, belief, thoughts, desires, pleasures and inter-personal relationships --- WITHOUT at the same time: 1. Alienating themselves from those people upon whom they have "successfully" imposed such rules? 2. Violating national and international rules defining the human rights of citizens who are: open, honest, civil, gracious, generous, hospitable and reverent toward others? 3. Themselves demonstrating arrogance, self- righteousness, dishonesty, addictions, and collusive- games-of-mutual-self-deception. 4. Themselves triggering disintegrative feed-back- loops of behaviors which UNDERMINE both personal and communal forms of integrities of diverse kinds --- among people who have been healthy before? 5. Subverting/interfering-with healthy covenants of gracious mutual-understandings --- which have been the basis for: gracious, civil, open, honest, generous, hospitable and reverent --- personal relationships. 6. Violating the most integrative/gracious teachings of the original founders of most of the widely respected religious traditions. 7. Resorting to unwelcomed forms of intrusion, coercion, violence and/or threats. 8. Undermining, subverting, suppressing and/or repressing: creativity, authenticity, common-sense and wisdom? 9. Promoting: anger, contentiousness and terrorism? 10. Undermining: cooperation, collaboration, conflict-resolution and peacemaking. If there are few, if any, such well documented occasions of success --- why are they not celebrated, and why are there not more of them? What helpful conclusions should we draw from there being few success stories? (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================