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    %PUNISH MISTAKES RISKS CONTROL LOSE OPEN HONEST 030529
%GUARD FALL VULNERABLE IMPERFECT CREATIVE AUTHENTIC 030529
      %EXPERIENCES PEACE SHALOM SANCTUARY COMMUNITY 030529
        %INTEGRITIES INTIMATE INVULNERABLE SECURITY 030529
                   %TERROR CYCLE REVENGE ANGER FEAR 030529

     If people are often punished for:

     1.  The mistakes they make ---

     2.  The risks-taken which go sour --- when they could
         not maintain full control over the outcomes ---

     3.  Being open and honest --- and being taken ad-
         vantage of because they were open and honest ---

     4.  Letting their guard down ---

     5.  Being willing to be prudently vulnerable ---

     6.  Being imperfect:

     7.  Being creatively authentic ---

     8.  Understanding texts in ways which make sense to
         them in the light of their own experiences ---

     9.  Seeing how apparently contradictory affirmations
         are in-truth complementary to each other ---

    10.  Working as peace-makers preparing for peace and
         shalom for all ---

         THEN --- the are UNLIKELY to be willing to take
         the risks which are involved in:

     1.  Making sound investments in stock-markets and
         sanctuary/community building.

     2.  Working to promote both personal and communal
         integrities through thoughtful and gracious
         integrations.

     3.  Letting-go of compulsive defenses which become
         offensive to many people.

     4.  Being involved in healthy-intimate relationships.

     5.  Transcending "security" which is "achieved" by
         achieving "invulnerability".

     6.  Breaking the cycles of terrorism and wars of
         revenge/retaliation.

     7.  Healing the wounds of ancient injustices/wrongs.

     8.  Transcending anger and fear.
 the "The Domination
         System".
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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