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 %STANDING MEANINGFULLY TOGETHER COMPLEMENTARY WAYS+030420
 %AFFIRMATION DENIGRATION BUILDING INTEGRATION GODS+030420
  %INTEGRITIES SECURITY SANCTUARIES SURVIVE EVOLVED+030420
%EVOLUTION LIFE LOVERS INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS DEVIL+030420
 %GOODNESS MERCY RECONCILIATION INVULNERABILITY SEX+030420
 %OPENNESS MARRIAGE BONDING DOMINATION CONTROL SINS 030420
                                                          
     The  following statements are offered as  descriptive 
pointers to some truths about human relationships.  IF the 
following  descriptions  are  regarded  as PREscriptive or 
PROscriptive; or  as AUTHORITATIVE SCRIPTS ---  the truths 
to   which  the statements  can otherwise point  ---   are 
likely  to  be obscured and/or perverted.                 
                                                          
     The true-kind of security/sanctuary --- which        
      we-together can-stand-for-and-affirm ---            
       cannot-survive-meaningfully --- if                 
        in our efforts to defend                          
         our-own-individualistic                          
          security-as-invulnerability ---                 
           we thoughtlessly destroy                       
            each-community-which-can-give-meaning         
             to the true-kind of security/sanctuary which 
              we presumably can-stand-for-and-affirm.     
                                                          
     We-as-isolated-individuals ---                       
      cannot-give-meaning-to nor                          
       can-we-preserve our own security/sanctuary as ---  
        invulnerability-to-each-isolated-other-person.    
                                                          
     We cannot survive-meaningfully-in-isolation as ---   
      invulnerable-beings-who-are-eternal.                
                                                          
     We do-not-exist-eternally --- because we have not    
      existed-eternally --- and cannot exist-eternally.   
                                                          
     It is futile to-try-to-create-meaning ---            
      by-achieving-and-preserving ---                     
       security-which-depends-upon ---                    
        security-as-invulnerability --- eternally.        
                                                          
     True security-and-meaning cannot                     
      stand-for-long as invulnerability-in-isolation      
       with self-righteousness-and-arrogance.             
                                                          
     Complementary-truths cannot-long-stand-alone ---     
      in-meaningful-ways --- which denigrate-each-other.  
                                                          
     Complementary-truths  cooperatively-stand-together   
      in-meaningful-ways; or they soon-fall-apart         
       into-meaningless-ways.                             
                                                          
     So long as our focus is upon deciding which of our   
      complementary-truths is-the-most-true-and-meaningful
       --- to-the-exclusion-of-other-truths ---           
        we cannot stand-being-together at-all ---         
         and so DO NOT stand-meaningfully-for-anything.   
                                                          
     When we ignore truths which we do not like ---       
      we do not change any such truths --- but in tragic  
       ways we are likely to illustrate the truths which  
        we refuse to acknowledge and discuss --- with     
         each other person whom we do not trust ---       
          because they are "different".                   
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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