This is http://www.essayz.com/b0302261.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %VALUE IMPORTANCE PRIORITY IDEAL REFLEXIVE RELATE 030226 %NARROW SPECIALIZATION EXCLUSIVE REJECTION FAULT 030226 %ESTRANGEMENT ALIENATION EXCOMMUNICATION INTIMACY 030226 %REFLECT MEDITATE PRAYER RESPONSIVE HOSPITALITY 030226 %FRIENDSHIP INTIMACY SEXUALITY BONDING VULNERABLE 030226 How healthy we are --- depends much upon how well we reflect/comment upon our attitudes, assumptions, thoughts, decisions, hopes and personal relationships; i.e., our health depends much upon our REFLEXIVE lives together --- as well as upon our OBJECTIVE lives together. People who have been taught or have otherwise come to value "objectivity" are often inclined to neglect the importance of healthy REFLEXIVE time spent together --- because they have come to value OBJECTIVITY almost exclusively. OBJECTIVITY cannot be achieved regarding REFLEXIVE time spent together --- and so, narrowly objective people are embarrassed by the need to give careful consideration to how well they spend REFLEXIVE time together in NON-OBJECTIVE relationships with other persons known in intimate ways. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================