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%RISK MANAGEMENT FINANCIAL POSITIONS ATTITUDES HOPE+021220
 %THOUGHTS BELIEFS BEHAVIORS OPPOSITE COMPLEMENTARY+021220
 %CONFLICT EXTREME LEARNING MISTAKES ERRORS FAILURE+021220
  %NATURAL CONSEQUENCES IMPURITY AVOID DENY REPRESS+021220
    %LOVE ESTRANGEMENT FRIENDSHIP ARROGANCE HONESTY+021220
%INDEPENDENT INTERDEPENDENCE PRIDE HUMILITY SUCCESS+021220
  %FAILURE INTIMACY SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS CENTEREDNESS 021220
                                                          
     We each need in various complementary ways:          
                                                          
     1.  To recognize and talk about the risks of our own 
     EXTREME:  positions, attitudes, thoughts, beliefs and
     behaviors.                                           
                                                          
     2.  To help those at opposite/complementary extremes 
     to recognize & manage the risks of their own EXTREME:
     positions, attitudes, thoughts, beliefs and          
     behaviors.                                           
                                                          
     3.  To cooperate in building safe sanctuaries wherein
     we can all learn from different people about risk-   
     management at various EXTREMES --- by learning from  
     our own and from each other's mistakes, errors and   
     failures.                                            
                                                          
     4.  To learn and talk about the risks entailed in    
     going to the ESTEEM of trying to avoid or eliminate  
     all:  errors,  mistakes, failures,  impurities; i.e.,
     trying to avoid all risks.                           
                                                          
     5.  To be wise about the risks of: alienation, love; 
     estrangement, friendship; arrogance, honesty;        
     independence, interdependence; pride, humility;      
     success, failure; intimacy, self-righteousness;      
     self-centeredness, consumerism, communism; narcissism
     etc.                                                 
                                                          
     6.  To help EXTREMISTS to learn from the natural     
     consequences of their failures to do as suggested    
     above.                                               
                                                          
     7.  To protect ourselves in gracious ways from the   
     natural consequences of extremists NOT learning from 
     the natural consequences of their failures to do as  
     suggested above.                                     
                                                          
     8.  To avoid copying the domineering patterns of the 
     behaviors of extremists who fail in ways which are   
     suggested above.                                     
                                                          
     9.  To recognize which RESOURCES are truly limited   
     as to the available supply; and which other RESOURCES
     can be expanded through the use of RESOURCES which   
     are NOT truly limited as to the available supply;    
     e.g., as among: particular elements/minerals,        
     fuels, energy, power; principles, values, ideals,    
     role-models; knowledge, understandings, insights;    
     health, reconciliation, cooperation, sanctuaries,    
     integrities, humane-talents, diplomacy, peacemaking, 
     conflict-resolution, hospitality, civility;          
     technology, science; spirituality, etc.              
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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