This is http://www.essayz.com/b0210202.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %VIOLENT CONFLICT INTELLIGENT INFORMED REASONABLE+021020 %DEDICATED HIGH IDEALS VALUES PRINCIPLES POLICIES+021020 %RESOLUTION GRACIOUS LOVERS DOMINATION SYSTEM SINS+021020 %INTIMATE PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS MEANINGFUL PLEASE+021020 %SEXUAL PLEASURE JOYS ENJOYMENT COMMUNAL SANCTUARY+021020 %UNDERSTANDING INTEGRATION FEARS ANXIETIES DEVILS 021020 Why is there so much VIOLENT conflict among people who seem to be so intelligent, well informed, reasonable and dedicated to high ideals? Why do they fail to resolve conflicts among themselves in NON-VIOLENT ways? Perhaps many VIOLENTLY-CONFLICTED people are under the domination of "The Domination System" and DO NOT LIVE WITHIN COMMUNAL-SANCTUARIES wherein they may safely recognize, name and describe: 1. What they most yearn-for, desire, enjoy, hope- for, thirst-for, hunger-for, covet, etc. 2. Intimate personal relationships which have meant the most to them, occasioned their greatest pleasures and joys, and done the most to liberate/heal them; and occasioned their deepest levels of new understanding and integration. 3. What have seemed to occasion their deepest: fears, anxieties and depressions. 4. The people who have seemed to them to be the most threatening, un-trustworthy and evil --- and the apparent reasons for them being so distressing. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================