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 %TRAGIC DILEMMA FAITHFUL SUPPORT DOMINATION SYSTEM+021020
%CONFLICTING NEEDS DESIRES IDEALS PRINCIPALS VALUES+021020
%MAINTAIN DISTANCE OBJECTIVITY INTIMACY CONTROLLERS+021020
%IGNORANT MISINFORMED UNINFORMED DROPPING BOMBS GUN+021020
   %DECEPTION DISHONESTY PRETENTIOUS SELF RIGHTEOUS 021020
                                                          
     Why do domineering people often specialize in  trying
to   be  in  "remote  control"   of  things,   people  and
relationships?   Why do they maintain "their distance" and
avoid  getting  intimately involved with the  people  whom
they  seek to control?    "At a distance"  they cannot  be
well  informed  ---  and so remain relatively ignorant  of
what it is that they are seeking to control.    Why remain
ignorant?                                                 
                                                          
     The  dilemma  which domineering people face  is  that
they   are  required  to  use  dishonesty  as  a  tool  of
domination ---  in order to be faithful to "The Domination
System".     Dishonesty  is  an  essential  foundation  of
domination.     It  is  dangerous  to  become   intimately
involved  with  lovers whom one is to attempt to  deceive,
coerce  and/or  control through dishonest  means.   Lovers
might see through the deceptions if they are too close for
comfort.    One must "maintain the distance"   in order to
be emotionally free  to  be  manipulative,   coercive  and
violent. Dropping  bombs  on people far below is far safer
than   is  meeting   the  enemy  face  to  face!       You
cannot    be  invulnerable  when  you  are  up  close  and
personal.     Neither can  you  be well informed enough to
make    wise   decisions  when   your   are   distant  and
invulnerable.       Domineering people are doomed to  make
tragic   mistakes  because  they  are  committed  to   use
dishonesty,   coercion  and  violence in order    to    be
faithful   to   "The   Domination    System.   Domineering
people   engender   evil  relationships   which  undermine
mutual   understanding,     cooperation   and    conflict-
resolution which is mutually advantageous.   In truth they
cannot truly win!                                         
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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